Valentine's Day and Love: Don't be this guy!

Don't be this guy!

By clueless - This FML is from back in 2014 but it's good stuff - United States - Irvine

Today, I realized that when a girl asks what your plans are for Valentine's Day and you say, "Nothing" and she responds with, "Oh, I don't have any plans either", it means she wants you to take her out. It took me three months to figure that out. FML

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By LoveStinks - 18/08/2016 10:56

Today, I asked a girl what time she'd like me to pick her up for our date tonight. She didn't know what I was talking about. It seems like, after months of sweaty palms, nervous smiles, and awkward sentences, I only dreamed she said yes to going out. FML

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By bruisedandconfused - 12/02/2019 12:25 - United States - Aberdeen

Today, two days after sending her flowers for Valentine's Day, my dream girl asked me on a date. She didn't show up. Her boyfriend did though. FML

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By -insert clever nickname here- - 29/04/2012 23:56 - United States - Seattle

Today, I asked the girl I'm madly in love with out to dinner. When she asked me if I would pay, I jokingly said, "Well, that depends on how the date goes." She looked me up and down and said, "No thanks then." FML

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By Username - 23/12/2010 10:50

Today, I asked a girl I liked what she was doing tomorrow night. She replied, "Cleaning, so nothing really." I then asked her out to dinner. She declined. FML

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Not today, Satan, not today!

By Anonymous - 15/12/2021 01:01 - United Kingdom

Today, after trying really hard to impress a girl and thinking everything was going the right way, hugs, kisses and chatting every night, and trying to spend as much time together, I get told, "I don't know what I want, but I know what I don't want." Meaning me. FML

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By anonymous - 06/09/2016 03:05 - United States - Monroe

Today, my girlfriend told me that she didn't know we were actually dating. FML

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A tale as old as time

By Anonymous - 04/06/2023 04:00 - United States - Miami Beach

Today, I went out with a girl, I paid for the drinks, and thought everything went well, even though I didn’t make a move, I guess I wanted to take it slow. I texted later to invite her to a private beach next week, only for her to reply that she’s not gonna be available for the next few weeks because her boyfriend is coming to visit. FML

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By NoValentine - 14/02/2009 22:49 - United States

Today, I realized the reason I was asked to babysit 3 weeks ago for Feb 14 was because the old married couple with kids safely assumed that I wouldn't have a Valentine. FML

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By FriendsZone - 15/05/2012 20:44 - United States

Today, the girl I've had a crush on for a year finally said she'd go out with me. On the way over to pick her up, she called me and said she couldn't go because she was going out to dinner with her ex-boyfriend to talk things over. She asked if she could use the reservations I had made. FML

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Honesty is the best policy

By Anonymous - 19/06/2020 02:00

Today, I finally went on a date with a girl I've been talking to for 2 years. She is my dream girl, picture perfect and I love her with all my heart. So I asked her, half jokingly, if I was her dream guy. Her reply? "Don't ask me something you don't want to hear the answer of." FML

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Akerra89 14

Monday 19 May 2014 23:06

That sucks! Well I'd ask her out to dinner all the same

f0xr0t 8

Monday 19 May 2014 23:07

its a bit obvious that she wanted to go out with you, try to make it better maby buy her a bouquet of flowers?

Comments

Goblin182 26

Tuesday 20 May 2014 13:19

In my best Red Forman voice, "dumb ass".

mannatee 19

Tuesday 20 May 2014 13:21

There is no way you didn't deserve this

Truthteller31 1

Tuesday 20 May 2014 13:22

*palm smacks face*

Axel5238 29

Tuesday 20 May 2014 16:55

Being subtle is one thing I think in most cases they want the guy to show some effort romantically in pursuing them. Though, there are women that subtle is one thing, but could easily be mistaken for being friendly and not interest. For the OP if she had been hinting at hanging out or doing something down the road the signs were there for you take take the opportunity and see how it would go. If not yeah she wasn't giving you enough info.

Leprekhaun 14

Tuesday 20 May 2014 18:21

Why can't girls just be straightforward? Seriously how hard is to say "I'm alone on valentines day, you should take me out." Or does that just make it sound desperate....

XxNightwingxX 21

Tuesday 20 May 2014 19:22

To her, and a lot of other women in the US and possibly Canada and Europe, she probably thought she was being straightforward. Margret Mead explains it better. You should look into her stuff. It's interesting. ^_^

RogueWarrior869 23

Tuesday 20 May 2014 18:27

I don't know why people are voting ydi on this one. Sometimes things like that don't always click, and she could have said something back then herself.