Depression and Parents: Double standard

Double standard

By Anonymous - 09/01/2012 05:01 - United States

Today, I spent five hours sobbing in my room due to antidepressant withdrawal. My mother refused to come and talk to me, because I'm "a terrible, hateful child who only cares about herself." Last week, I spent two hours comforting her because my brother hadn't called in a week. FML

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By terrible person - 04/04/2011 09:29

Today, I went to my boyfriend's house to break down and cry because his mother hates me for unknown reasons. I walked in, gave him a long hug, and started sobbing. I then saw his mother. She was visiting him to complain about how terrible a person I am. FML

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By Mike - 11/09/2019 04:01 - United States - Burlington

Today, I called my mother to say hi. She spent a whole hour and a half complaining about how I never call her, bawling and calling me "a waste of human flesh." I call her at least once a week. FML

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Coping

By Anonymous - 23/06/2023 18:00

Today, I realized how self-absorbed my mother is when she came to visit, and was so upset at my sibling over a non-issue that she didn't notice I was high so I wouldn't have to remember anything she said. I was hoping for a healthier relationship with my family. FML

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Let it out

By :-( - 17/07/2013 05:22 - Australia - Rozelle

Today, I finally convinced my mum to take me to a psychologist. As soon as he sat me down and asked me how I was doing, my mum burst into tears and went on a rant about how her life is terrible and she regrets everything. I was asked to sit in the waiting room. She used up my whole hour. FML

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By purpleskylight - 27/06/2012 05:29 - United States - Lexington

Today, I tried for 45 minutes to convince my psychiatrist to take me off my antidepressant. When he finally agreed to do so, I broke down into tears and sobbed uncontrollably for 10 minutes. Hello, increased prescription. FML

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By machina - 16/07/2019 04:01

Today, I approached my mother for comfort, because I've been feeling depressed and unloved by anyone lately. She replied, “Honestly, I stopped loving you back when you were a toddler.” FML

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Priorities

By unknown - 26/04/2021 21:30

Today, I was feeling depressed. I overheard my mom crying on the phone. She said, “If my daughter kills herself, who’s going to do the dishes?” FML

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By Anonymous - 20/04/2009 18:22 - United States

Today, I told my mom that I was taking antidepressants because I hate myself. She said "That's not surprising. You hate everybody. And, you're kind of a bitch." FML

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Narcissistic

By Anonymous - 07/03/2022 06:00 - Canada - Dundas

Today, my mom chewed me out, because my brother has been complaining to her that I don't talk to him anymore since moving out. We've never talked much, even when we were sharing a place! FML

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By Anonymous - 25/08/2019 19:00 - Pakistan - Islamabad

Today, going to my psychiatrist's appointment for my PTSD and depression, my mother yelled about how useless I am and how I torture her existence with my "abnormalities." She told the doctor how much I've improved and become such a delight at home for her and our family. FML

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Pentium_4 27

Monday 9 January 2012 11:58

bi-polarism is a terrible disease. feel bad for her

Buttsexpirate 9

Monday 9 January 2012 12:03

Sounds like somebody needs a hug! :3

Comments

buddyguyfriend 1

Monday 9 January 2012 18:25

People this isn't a sad little girl that needs help. Well yea like rehab but she doesn't need comfort. She didn't say she suffers from depression. She said withdrawals. That means she can get any pills and is tripping out

AmbrosiaWriter 17

Monday 9 January 2012 18:37

You can get withdrawals from taking medicine that was prescribed to you, especially anti-depressants. There can be a myriad of reasons, and I refer to my other comment responding to your arrogance, that the girl cannot get the pills that she needs to treat her depression. I have plenty of friends who needed medications and when their insurance changed they had to try and find a new doctor that was covered. They suffered withdrawal because of the time it takes to get a new doctor, new prescription, and cut through all the medical insurance BS. Basically, you don't know what you're talking about. Just because someone says "withdrawal" doesn't mean they got the medications illegally.

robberry 11

Monday 9 January 2012 18:38

You realize depression is often hereditary, right?

Faz7875 2

Monday 9 January 2012 19:53

Well, now u know for next time ur mother needs u.

bizarre_ftw 21

Monday 9 January 2012 20:52

And she wonders why he doesn't call (I'm guessing she's the reason you were on anti-depressants in the first place)

Okayitwasme 0

Monday 9 January 2012 20:59

Quit getting mad at your mom! Think about other things that are positive! Look in the mirror and say five things about yourself that is positive. We as humans do think negatively for safety reason. 'Eg- Don't step on the ice.' These negative thoughts can become over the top as we age. Catch yourself when you can on the ones that can be positive thoughts. Good luck OP! Give it a go!