You really shouldn't feel obligated to be attracted to people, let alone feel like you *have to* have sex/kiss, or anything sexual. It should come down to whether you WANT to have those things, not you feeling like you SHOULD want them. You could be in the asexual and/or aromantic spectrum, low libido, or just not interested in those things now. If you never find someone you are attracted to in a sexual or romantic way? Great, more time to spend doing other things. You find someone when your 40 years old? Great, you'll probably be more aware of who you are as a person and what you want. You find someone next week? Great, you found someone who gives you those feelings. What matters is whether you want those things, or if you feel obligated to want them or partake in them. Take some time to sit down and think about if you want it because YOU want it, or if you feel like you have to do these things because your family wants you to- which, your aunt being in your dream in such a role may be an indication you feel subconsciously pressured by them.

That dream actually sounds kind of adorable.

Well now that you had a nice mall date, maybe in your next dream you'll get some action.

She should have hired you a dream-male-prostitute instead. Strippers are notorious for not giving it up. :D

I really hope someday this stigma about virginity disappears. There's absolutely no shame in being a virgin (for males or females) and the idea that you're supposed to have kissed someone or had sex or "reached 3rd base" by a certain age is mystifying.

Don't worry about what everyone thinks.I was in your shoes and it's worth waiting for what you really love.But it goes like this,you might have to kiss some frogs befor you find your prince.

Yeah I can't make my self do what i secretly want in my dreams... They tend to follow my real life actions

Today, the girl who constructed her aunt to construct me in her mind left me without anything good to do. FML

Not a big deal. Period.

your Aunt is the real hero