i feel bad for her, but there is no way he could have known that. not his fault.

ok #178- is that a joke? or are you actually just retarded?

Why is your like f---ed? What about the girl?

Rather than running off crying she should have explained the situation to you. Not your fault, and anyone here who says it is should be eaten.

You're just a doorman, DOORMAN!

#71... "I'm just saying what I think" is often the justification for saying horrible insensitive things. An observation can be an opinion and still manage to be obnoxious,

stop with all the ******* bullshit stories....how hard is it to tell the ******* difference between a girl with a disfigured face and one without? ******* idiot...people like you ruin FML

Its not your fault dude, there's no way you could have known that.

You were right to turn her away, but I do think there are better ways of going about it. I have a legitimate I.D but because I happen to look really young, bouncers often treat it with suspicion at first (although they have on all but one occassion had the sense to know that it's real). I'm used to it and understand that they are just doing their job, so for the most part, I don't make too much fuss. (I also used to work in a bar so have had to I.D people myself). However very occassionally it can feel as though bouncers set out to humiliate you- it's horrible to be made to feel like you're doing something wrong when all you want to do is go for a quiet (legal!) drink with friends. Although OP's comment wasn't THAT bad, I do think it was an arrogant way of turning someone away. Asking for alternative I.D would have been sufficient.

you think your a big man because your a bouncer? **** you.