dafuq?

That makes no sense what so ever. Why would she ask for 10cents for anal? Are you implying op is a prostitute? Secondly if OP were a prostitute, shed be well broke by now only charging 10cents a go.

I'm assuming they were trying to make a(n extraordinarily stupid) joke about OP's ex-boyfriend having a small penis, hence "coming up short". What anal and 10 cents have to do with it, I haven't the foggiest idea.

39, you have a heart of gold, (: but sometimes it takes hitting rock bottom to realize you may have a problem. I'm sure there's probably other issue the OP was tired of dealing with if the ex could lash out and punch someone (especially a female) over a dime. :P

39, you say you wouldn't leave, but have you ever actually been in a situation like this to know for sure what you would do? He obviously has anger issues which could be dangerous for OP and this was probably the last straw.

A good relationship is when both persons are equal. You're not obliged to stay in a relationship that you're not happy in, and it wouldn't do you any good. Plus the ex sounds downright dangerous, him punching the cashier for such a small thing. Sometimes being alone for a while makes you realise you need help. It's not her job to pull his shit together for him.

HE PUNCHED A GIRL IN THE FACE!!!!!!

#44 yes and I think you need to stick by them #51 that's true , breaking with him there could be a possibility of him seeing it #70 it happens.. people lose their cool sometimes and it's ****** up but it doesn't make him a horrible person for making a mistake

People lose their cool all the time however most people when they lose their cool, yell or maybe slam shit around if it is really bad. They don't punch an innocent woman in the face for doing her job. The fact that you are even trying to excuse him is ridiculous. The fact that he did that proved that he is a danger to those around him. Including, if not especially, OP. To stay with someone who could very possibly lose it and hurt her would be a terrible idea. Telling him that she would consider getting back with him AFTER he has gone to therapy would be reasonable but bailing him out and staying with him, hoping that maybe he thinks he has a problem and will fix it is not.

So, there aren't any better ways to vent out frustration in that scenario than punching the cashier, despite the fact that she was in no way in the wrong? All this for some alcohol... You really think he's a genuinely good boyfriend otherwise, and that they shouldn't break up over the fact that he's in prison?

81 & 85: of course this wasn't the women's fault and I'm not excusing it , he never should have done it and 85 I do believe he can be a genuinely good guy and boyfriend. I don't think this action proves he's a bad person , he just needs to get help with his anger problems and i really think he could use the OPs support at this time to help him, oh and he's most likely not going to go to prison for this. Why am I the only one who stick up for the OP's ex and understand.. Ahh !

You are the only one who is sticking up for the ex because for some reason you are the only one who believes that a person should not suffer the consequences of their actions. You prove yourself to be a danger to those around you and you end up with no one who is willing to be around you. Maybe he isn't all bad but it isn't OP's job to fix him it is his. He has to want to do something about it and if he doesn't he is a lost cause.

^^^^^^ I agree. This is in no way anybody's fault but the OP's ex's. He has anger issues, and he has to recognize that he needs help. It is not something somebody else can do for him. This is something only he can do.