#71, I appreciate your concern, really I do. I sit alone at night wondering why I never seem to get laid, but it turns out diabetic_rage solved the dilemma. It turns out I have an attitude. Thanks for clearing that up for me. Have you ever thought about getting a Dr. Phil gig? You're dispensing free advice and valuable nuggets of information here for free, I'm sure you could make a killing doing it for a living. Frankly...if I never get laid by an uggo I'll be fine with that.

umm.. didnt he guess you would read that?

#38: Pure. Genious. If he was on the phone the whole time, you should have left him there. Who would wanna be on a date who's not even paying attention to them?

#13 How do you know he's a nerd? Just because he uses facebook or talks on the phone?

Hey #38... "Half the people blame her". So, a perfect 50/50 split is sexism? Really? I hope, in time, you'll realize what a fool you've been.

wat a jerk!!

Whether he liked her personality or not is irrelevant. He was on a date with her and regardless of how he feels about her he should be polite. It's rude to be on your cell phone at all during a date unless it's very important, let alone be on the entire time. And the FB status crosses so many lines. Never put up with being treated like that again; if someone is on their cell phone during a date again politely tell them that you find that rude, and if they persist tell them you're going to the bathroom and just leave.

LOL at lyndis! not in a good way either. not all women are absolute psychos like that hahahaha. maybe you should try looking in other places, seems like the ones you've got aren't working out too well for you.

#79, I'd much rather be insulted for being ugly than having a boring personality. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and at least if you're ugly you may have an awesome sense of humor or personality to back it up. You can also certainly control being ugly; the difference between me three years ago and me now is VAST. There's cosmetics, weight loss, acne wash, etc. You might not be able to look like a supermodel, but there's room for improvement. Also, the OP says the guy ignored her from the start, so I can't blame her for feeling awkward and probably not being confident enough to let her best side out. If he hated her this much to begin with, then he's at fault for being dishonest and giving her the wrong impression by agreeing to a date. I'd also rather be insulted by some stranger on the street that I can easily walk away from, instead of investing time and effort into a date only to be treated like crap. So, it would definitely make sense for this girl to be far more hurt than that guy from the cute ass story was. It looks like I've gotten some supporters on this. And to whoever said 50/50 = not sexism, yeah. Maybe that would actually make sense if the nice comments/mean comments ratio wasn't 50/50 for the girl and 100/0 for the guy. Also... me, the reincarnate of janderson? LOL. I don't believe all men are rapists and I also don't spew out ridiculous statistics, nor am I smoking something fabulous. I reported every single comment janderson made. I see no resemblance, sorry, and I'm also sorry that janderson felt so little that they needed to taint the feminist movement like that.

You had a bad date but YL is not F. The facebook status is not even mentionable, big deal, you gotta get off that stuff. and #1 is so right.