1. And some of the girls wear pendants just because they like and not necessarily to draw attention to their breasts, most of them I would say. 2. Think highly is one thing, keep on staring just as she is nothing but breasts is something entirely different. You know I have big breasts myself and it does not really make me feel secure that everyone is staring at them. 3. How do you know that ? She might just as well be wearing turtleneck, to some guys everything is chest bearing shirt. 4. Looking yes, staring no. 5. Yeah, her ****.

I think it's more like the "creeper" way he was doing it. If he wanted to see the pendant, he could have asked. He simply stared at her chest in a really obvious and rude way, and is STILL trying to justify it by saying "No, no, I WASN'T looking at BREASTS." Us ladies KNOW guys look at our boobs... It's something we deal with a lot. And we don't tend to mind if a guy is at least HONEST about it. It's the creepy "so called nice guys" that act like guilty creeps when they even entertain a dirty thought about a female. Without knowing WHY he's acting so shifty and nervous, we assume the worst. I mean, what NORMAL guy would act so suspicious over merely finding a lady hot?

Haha, for some reason, I'd love it if a shy guy was like "[fidgetfidget]... I'M STARING AT YOUR BOOBS," especially over "Oh, uh, uh, uh, I like your, uh, uh, shirt collar!" - former's surprising, embarassing, but... oddly adorable, whereas the latter is nervous, suspicious, and creepy, and would indeed warrant avoidance. Asking more sincerely about a necklace beforehand can get sneaky booblooks without offense. "Hey, your necklace is really neat... I really like that pendant. What is it? Oh? I think my mother has one like that, she never wears it. Looks really pretty on you." Try and milk it out as long as you can without getting obvious (repeating yourself, for example). In any case, whether you're sincere or sneaking looks, you're attracting her interest and focusing on her, something people just plain WANT on dates.

I must agree. If someone drags along a friend on a date, it most likely means they're wanting a second opinion, meaning they can't make decisions for themselves or are overly dependent on others.