Just stop, please

By fuck you, mum - This FML is from back in 2013 but it's good stuff - United Kingdom

Today, marks the sixth day in a row that my mum has called me to discuss my upcoming wedding. She's obsessed and has intimidated the actual planner I hired into going along with her plans. She's slipped up twice already and accidentally referred to it as her own wedding. Just great. FML
I agree, your life sucks 41 156
You deserved it 4 292

Same thing different taste

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Reminds me a lot of my mom... Are you sure you aren't my long-lost sister or something?

Uninvited her.. Fire the planner.. And intimidate her rat so she gets lonely..

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Don't worry. Once you're married it will only get bett... Oh who am I kidding. Good luck.

Did your father leave her at the altar or something?

Steve95401 49

Instead of a Bridezilla, this wedding is going to have a Momzilla.

It sounds like she's trying to plan HER perfect wedding, don't let her walk all over you.

Are you really going to let your mother try and take your wedding away from you? She might be your mom but this is your wedding, not hers. Suck it up, OP and put your foot down.

Exactly what i was going to say. Not saying anything will have much bigger consequences than keeping your mouth shut. I'm not pro bridezillas, but its still your day and you have to own it.

This is YOUR day. Not hers, if she can't understand that, then find a way to limit her access into the plans.

xeka 10

The Ban-Hammer needs to speak!

You may have to stand up to your mother and remind her it's your wedding so it's what you want. Yes I get that she may not have had the wedding she always wanted but that doesn't mean she forces her dreams upon you. :P

She's a mother, she's excited. Maybe her mother acted that way when planning hers. Be gentle if you confront her about it, she's getting older too (:

Being excited is one thing but her mother is taking over and planning the wedding as if it were her own. That's not fair to op.