Health, Mental health, Anxiety and Stressed out: Keep it up

Keep it up

By need2eat - 15/06/2009 15:48 - United States

Today, I saw my parents for the first time in 11 weeks. They commented on how much weight I lost. I told how due to stress, I hadn't been able to eat anything for the past two weeks and I was basically unintentionally starving myself. They told me to keep it up. FML

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By Anonymous - 02/10/2019 00:02

Today, I told my mom I lost 30 pounds because of an eating disorder. She told me to keep up the good work. FML

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By Anonymous - 01/07/2011 05:56 - United States

Today, after weeks, I've finally reached my goal and lost 10 lbs. My sister got jealous about me losing weight, and told my parents and coworkers that I'm anorexic. Hello, intervention. FML

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By me - 28/06/2013 15:51 - United States

Today, I went to my parents' house. I recently lost about 30 lbs. My mom hugged me and said, "Aww, you're not my chubby baby girl anymore." She then said she wished I were still fat because she missed it. She's the reason I lost the weight; she used to tease and taunt me. Thanks Mom. FML

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By boyishgirl - 27/02/2015 19:14 - United States - Anchorage

Today, I got to see my best friend for the first time in months. Her first reaction was to say, "Wow, you gained a lot of weight." I actually lost a fair bit. FML

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By mattlikesfunions - 18/07/2016 18:56 - United States - Federal Way

Today, I told my parents that I was going on a diet to lose weight and I wanted their support. They brought home donuts and pizza for dinner. FML

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By spinspinsugar - 24/02/2021 14:01 - United States - Camillus

Today, I was video chatting with my dad. He handed the phone to his wife, whose first words out of her mouth were, "Why are you getting so skinny?" This was also the same woman whose first words out of her mouth when they came to visit us 3 years ago was how much weight I've gained. FML

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By sunshine - 29/06/2017 02:00

Today, I saw my uncle after six months. The first thing he says to me is, 'I didn't even recognize you! You've gained so much weight.' Gee thanks uncle. Just what I wanted to hear. FML

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Mother knows best

By Anonymous - 20/01/2021 12:01 - United States - Phoenix

Today, while visiting my parents, I observed that I've been able to visit more often because I've avoided getting sick the whole year. My mother responded by reminding me that I need to get my act together if I'm going to lose weight and get healthier. Not the reaction I hoped for, Mom. FML

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By Anonymous - 04/12/2016 22:14

Today, my family held an intervention and told me I needed to lose weight. It probably would've had more impact if they hadn't done this over video chat while stuffing their faces at an all-you-can-eat buffet. FML

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By Noname - 25/02/2009 22:06 - Canada

Today, I walked downstairs in a new outfit, after dieting for 3 months, and losing just over 20 pounds. My mom took one look at me and said "You'd better keep going." FML

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Monday 15 June 2009 20:03

Maybe they weren't being totally serious? Either way, get on a healthy diet and start exercising. You'll thank yourself later in life when you're lean and healthy.

Jessaly_fml 0

Monday 15 June 2009 20:30

That's such a parental thing to say. My mom encouraged me to take diet pills when I was 12 and at a HEALTHY weight. I don't know why parents can be so judgmental about weight, my grandma is too. If I had kids, I would think they were beautiful no matter what, regardless of weight. And dear god, if they told me they were under a lot of stress I would help them immediately...I'm sorry your parents suck.

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151Henry151 0

Tuesday 16 June 2009 19:27

Get over yourself. "Stress" is just life. Everybody thinks they've got too much of it. You can't blame your not eating on "stress," because I can always find somebody who experiences more "stressful situations" than you, and doesn't stop eating because of it. If you don't eat it's your own goddamn fault, and if your fat, it's good for you. So STFU.

Lalala203 0

Wednesday 17 June 2009 4:37

You sound rather mean, some people don't eat when they're stressed. Just like some people eat more when they are.

Jesx 0

Tuesday 16 June 2009 19:30

Wasn't this already out?

CLIDEtheGLIDE 0

Tuesday 16 June 2009 21:42

I would recommend exercise, but hey whatever works best for you.

CLIDEtheGLIDE 0

Tuesday 16 June 2009 21:41

I would recommend exercise, but hey whatever works best for you.

lologirl419 0

Wednesday 17 June 2009 3:51

God, quit bitching. Parents are normal humans too, they joke just like everyone else does. I guess Mommy and Daddy need to teach you about the joys of sarcasm. FYL for being ignorant. YDI for taking them seriously. Wow I love you # 100!!! You are just so... right!

ConSeannery 0

Wednesday 17 June 2009 10:56

Keep up your light eating habits. Chances are you were eating too much prior to your stress problems. I'm not sure how tall you are, but 5'7 for a girl you should weigh about 110-120. Don't stuff yourself, and dont eat unless you're really hungry, you'll be thankful for it

chellinha93 0

Friday 19 June 2009 1:32

huauhauaauha./.. this is funny, sounds like my parents. but since im used to it, who cares

lolcakes 0

Friday 19 June 2009 2:04

#112... for a 5'7" the healthy weight range is 118 - 159, according to BMI measurements. :) i think BMIs are largely bs and take that with a grain of salt, but i would put a healthy weight range for a 5'7" woman at more like 120-130. varies for everyone tho. OP - sorry... i am sure your parents were either sarcastic or meant no harm, but even if you did need to lose a bit of weight, if they knew how hard on you it had been that way, they would be concerned. :( take care.