Lazy ass

By Anonymous - 23/04/2015 17:04 - United States - Cherry Hill

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Today, my husband called me a nympho after I told him I'd ideally like us to have sex more than once a month. FML
I agree, your life sucks 41 708
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Same thing different taste

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Some people just have incompatible sex drives. He's wrong to call you names for expressing what you need to be happy. I hope you guys can talk it out and compromise so you're both happy and can have your needs met.

I think it's time to discuss with your husband that people not just yourself have needs. Those needs are normal & should be taken care of by those committed to you. AKA your husband.

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I wonder if a woman has ever called her husband obsessed with sex because he wanted to have sex with her.

I had a girlfriend who used to say that. Turns out she was cheating.

I'm sorry hopefully he wises up soon.

Id say very unusual for a couple thats married. Not unreasonable to say a marriage should have sexual attraction.

I'm guessing highly religious or gay. Probably both.

I don't know of any religion that objects to sex between a husband and wife...in fact, most encourage it and view it as a gift from God.

PLEASE start listening/reading Dan Savage.

Imagine if a guy posted saying he wanted sex from his wife more than once a month to be happy and she insulted him, would the comments be the same?

Yes, most definitely. Everyone's defending the husband on not wanting to have sex more than once a month, but if it was the wife not giving out as often, everyone would be commenting that she needs to up her game.

It could be a medical condition such as low testosterone, it can cause a loss of drive. He may love you very much, but reacting as such because his male pride is preventing him from admitting an issue.

Exactly what I was thinking. They definitely need to talk. But I think seeing a doctor is probably a good idea. I'd op's husband has a low sex drive there could be several medical reasons for that, and they will probably give him something to take to help with that.

It may also be that he just doesn't get any pleasure from it. I know that I don't really feel much in the way of physical pleasure when I do, so I usually don't think about it. I am perfectly content just laying down and cuddling with my lady, no sex needed

Badkarma4u 17

Just tell him you are GOING to have sex more than once a month. With whom is up to him.

Right, because threats and blackmail are the key to a healthy relationship.

uchihadesendent 14

nothing wrong with a woman that likes sex