Lazy ass

By Anonymous - 23/04/2015 17:04 - United States - Cherry Hill

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Today, my husband called me a nympho after I told him I'd ideally like us to have sex more than once a month. FML
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Same thing different taste

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Some people just have incompatible sex drives. He's wrong to call you names for expressing what you need to be happy. I hope you guys can talk it out and compromise so you're both happy and can have your needs met.

I think it's time to discuss with your husband that people not just yourself have needs. Those needs are normal & should be taken care of by those committed to you. AKA your husband.

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You can't force someone into having it if he doesn't want to you should respect that at least have a talk with him. Marriage isn't all about sex.

No you should never force or coerce. But when it's simply suggested, the disinterested partner probably shouldn't be so callous and dismissive, either.

That's weird haha. I thought the guys always wanted it more.

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I feel like maybe there is a medical or mental underlying cause. Like BC for me is the biggest mood killer, it makes me actually become repulsed when I'm touched or kissed by my bf. when you are stressed it kills your mood, when you feel pressured to perform it kills your mood, and when sex is boring. I also understand how sex is not as enjoyable when you feel forced because you are conpromising on how often you have sex. So instead of setting up specific dates for sex, I'd try to initiate it a little more often and make sure he is relaxed

It's kinda crazy to see how many instances of people with very opposite sex drives get married. It's kinda something most people tend to find out before they throw on the ring. I have to reserve judgement though because they could have saved sex for marriage, but nothing excuses calling you names for wanting a normal human desire

I feel your pain, my husbands never home. And if he thinks you're a nympho just because you want sex more than once a month then he clearly doesn't know what a nympho is...

What?? Once a day is way too less for me here