Needed to know

By ohwell - 09/06/2009 21:40 - United States

Today, I finally confessed to the guy I've liked for two years. I told him that I've really liked him for a long time, and that I knew he had a girlfriend and I didn't expect anything from him, I just wanted him to know. His response? "Are you done? 'Cause I need to go to the bathroom." FML
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Same thing different taste

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Wait 2 years and confess when he has a gf? Mm-HM.

Well, you weren't expecting anything from him.... and if he had a girlfriend why bother? if he liked you he would be dating you not her.

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YDI for putting him in an awkward position. I think you lost out on a good one because he knew exactly how to handle a situation like that. If he ended up dropping his gf for you after that I wouldn't want any piece of that. What's to say he wouldn't do the same thing to you?

Oh, and why don't you try that ok a single guy instead? Or do you just prefer to go for the guys that are already taken?

I'm sorry, but YDI. He had a girlfriend. Don't declare your love for people who are already taken. He could have said it more nicely, but you shouldn't have gone there.

how do guys like that get girl friends and firls having crush on them yet me, who is kind to everyone is still single.

What did you expect him to do? Leave his current girlfriend and run off into the sunset hand in hand with you? Life isn't a teen drama - 'confessing your love' to someone who is already in a relationship just comes off as creepy, and no one wants that sort of attention. YDI

zee209 0

You knew he had a girlfriend, and even told him that you expected nothing. What did you expect him to say? YDI

ironmadion55 0
Icarus3 0

Sorry, but wtf did you expect? That he would suddenly turn into a girl and get all interested in your personal emotional drama? You put him in a really, really awkward position. You can't possibly have expected it to end well, but you thought that your feelings were just so gosh darn important that you simply HAD to let him know for no good reason at all. Sure, he could have been a little more polite, but overall you deserved that one.

Mccartneylover 0

he's a jerk for dismissing you just like that. I think he should been more polite about it.

While thats kind of a put-down, i dont think it means he's an asshole like so many are saying. Just think from his perspective, you have a girlfriend, another girl talks to you and confesses they've liked you for 2 years, and don't "expect" anything, why say anything at all then? What it really sounds like is you dropping a hint that you aren't happy with the fact they're together and want to break them up, even if it's not what you meant. sorry but ydi, what an akward situation you created