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The OP is an idiot. Why would you tell him that when he has a girlfriend. First off, you said you didn't expect anything of him, but OBVIOUSLY you did since you told him that. You probably expected him to break up with his girl. And his response was normal since you said YOU DIDN'T EXPECT ANYTHING. YDI!
@263, QFT what was the poor guy supposed to say? YDI.
well. you weren't expecting anything.
what did you expect him to say? sure he was a little rude about it but what you did was kind of rude to him and it put him in one of the most awkward positions ever. if you like someone and tell them you like them well knowing the answer, and not expecting anything (as you said) then why is it such a big deal that he didnt say he liked you?
He certainly could have phrased it nicer. I know that you put the "disclaimer" (I expect nothing, etc.) infront of your confession to him so that you weren't backing him in a corner, but that's exactly what it translates to- a disclaimer. You basically gave him permission to be an insensitive jerk and tell you he had to go to the bathroom. FYL, now get over him and find someone who is nice and actually available.
Ngaww I'm really sorry, I did exactly the same thing, except I ran away before he had a chance to say anything, I'm to chicken to hear what he had to say.
To all the people who said he could have "put it nicer" don't know what they're talking about. How could he have put it any nicer? She told him she wasn't expecting anything...plus he had to go to the bathroom probably badly. Again, what was he supposed to say when he just wanted her to move? There is nothing where he could have said it nicer. The OP is being such a drama queen.
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Wait 2 years and confess when he has a gf? Mm-HM.
Well, you weren't expecting anything from him.... and if he had a girlfriend why bother? if he liked you he would be dating you not her.