She said FML because her husband wanted to have sex with someone other than her, thusly, she probably didn't want him to in any form, especially if he thaught she was attractive

I challenge! Perhaps she was describing the sec. in her husband's terms?

nerdy_singer - you spelled "thought" wrong. Your argument is henceforth invalid, along with any future points you may bring up. Dame - I do believe that if that were the case, the OP would have put hot in quotes?

She might have originally, but it was edited. FML mods tend to do things like that, for seemingly no reason. Or, she wasn't thinking right. Sometimes I skip out on quotations when I probably should have put them. But of course, to jump the fence, if he was asking her possibly he believes in polygamy, and if she married him knowing that.... threesome away.

The only reason you said that my one misspelling makes my point invalid is that you know I am right. If you think this point is wrong, then give me a valid argument to my previous point, ignoring the misspelling.

http://i28.tinypic.com/34g0sv4.jpg done.

Guys, ignore midnight, he's just another one of those "OMG THREESOME" idiots. The OP does not state that she thinks the secretary is hot. Duh.

GJ on the whole taking me seriously thing.

Its not a loving relationship without love.

People can still be sexually attracted to other people while being in love with someone else.

Exactly my point. Who said there was no love? There is love, it just exists for more than 1 female being at a time. At least he admits it.

see it's because of you wankers that the divorce rate is so high, this lady obviously still holds high values for marriage where a husband and wife love and respect each other no matter what! and if someone goes into a marriage thinking that 'oh well if i get bored i'll just hook up with the nearest hot secretary and if just to make sure that i'm honest i'll tell my wife about it and everything will be ok'. yeah like ******* hell!! to me, and the majority of the population, adultery is the lowest form of disrespect you can show to your spouse (unless you're swingers, their choice), but if you go into a marriage and have said vows to your loved one and you break them or are asking to break them then it is over!! and in the case that they have kids then that would be a situation you need to work out to avoid a split, i have split parents and don't wish anybody to go through that. so seriously people think about the values that OP holds before you comment on such a sacred (well at least it used to be) union! peace!