Quite the misunderstanding

By Janer88 - 30/11/2009 05:51 - Canada

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Today, I was working at a restaurant when my manager approached me and informed me that there was people having sex in the women's washroom, and he needed me to go in and ask them to cut it out. So I did. Five minutes later, a woman walks out with her disabled son and asks to talk to my manager. FML
I agree, your life sucks 40 657
You deserved it 3 243

Same thing different taste

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Flexanimous 0

Didn't they reply back to you when you stepped in and asked them to stop having sex?

Just so you know, you're being thumb-downed because your comment was ignorant. Not because you're gay.

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kelkels 0

I work with adults who are mentally challenged, and since most of them have difficultly speaking they groan, moan and yelll alot. I guess someone may over hear it and think someone is having sex but instead of accusing someone it woulda prolly been best to ask them if everything was ok.

maybe the mom was sitting down peeing and the kid was in the same stall standing up infront of her making noises LOL

i dont get it.... i take it the mom was helping her son?

Yes, children with disabilities may need help in the bathroom even if they're teenagers. It sounds like this child is non-verbal, in which case grunting is expected. People with autism, MR, brain injury, and others are often non-verbal. Let's not forget that people who are deaf also commonly make loud grunting noises, but they wouldn't need help in the bathroom if all else was okay, of course.

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yuhhmuthaa92 0

are you dumb? even after re-typing the sentence u still couldnt b like oh woops tht was my mistake... the mother walked out with her DISABLED SON.. as in the son was disabled not her so y wouldnt she be able to walk u nimrod!?

pwnage79 0
athena3100 9

The mother was walking and im guessing the son eas probably in some sort of wheel chair? either way the mother was walking not the son.

BlackBlazeCobra 16

You're both idiots. The first person asked how the SON was walking, not the mother, assuming the son was physically disabled. News flash: the kid was most likely MENTALLY disabled. Last time I checked, mentally disabled people can walk just fine.

npk88 0

I clicked YDI just for the horrible grammar in this fml..."there was people having sex"....fail.

eezoo07 0

agreed. perhaps if you used proper English, such as "were" when referring to a group (or more than 1 person) you would have a career instead of waiting table.

You deserved it. If you went in and heard those kind of noises, why wouldn't you just ask if they were ok instead of being a dumbass and telling them to stop having sex? Totally deserved it.

sLAUGHTERxx 0

I have to agree with some people about this being a poorly worded FML. I had to reread this a couple times just to get the basic concept down, and even then I still didn't really understand! And, since you're a woman, you could have walked in to see the scene going on! So what if there were people having sex! The minute you saw them, you could have closed your eyes and politely told them that the manager has told them to cut it out. I'm guessing you just knocked on the door and RUDELY yelled at them to stop. I am also guessing it was a public restroom with multiple stalls, so you could have just asked people who have just used the bathroom what exactly was going on. If it was a single-stall bathroom, then disregard that statement. But YDI for just knocking on the door and telling them to stop having sex. You could have said "What's going on in there?" or "Hey, could you turn down the volume a bit?". That would make the situation a little less rude and awkward. It's also kind of your manager's fault for assuming it was people having sex. Besides, who in the right mind would think of having sex in an open-to-the-public restroom! I mean come on! You could have told your boss that that's probably not what was happening!

sLAUGHTER, I don't know about where you live but Im pretty sure its illegal in the UK (where I live) to have sex in a public restroom so any employee told by his/her manager is hardly going to say "can you keep the volume down?" The employee were told to make it stop not for the noise to go away. You can't just assume the employee rudely said anything. Plus, if the public knew that it was easy to have sex in that particular restaurant's toilets then they would steer clear and the restaurant would lose business. So the employee wouldn't go sniffing around other people, disturbing their dinner by asking whether they noticed two people going at it like rabbits in the bathroom. I do agree though, "whats going on in there?" sounds better than just accusing those people of having sex. That was a fault on the managers behalf, and the manager should've done it. And it is pretty disgusting to even consider sex in a public bathroom.

Um, some people have sex in very, very weird (and public) places.

lazerdude07 0

I think the manager just thought they were having sex. Certain mentally handicapped people can make odd noises.

ewww you caught a mom banging her retarded kid