ditch the bitch

Lol easy deuces in my opinion

This is the cage idea I have ever heard!

your wife is brilliant! making my own chart now amd hopimg my hubby won't figure out that by denying sex with him, I would punish myself even more and no matter what he does or does not do..we gonna end up in bed

That sounds like the perfect setting for a sitcom.

Depends on the situation. Do you both work full time jobs? If yes then carry your share. If no and you're working full days nights whatever, then the housewife chose her role and should manage the house. If the other way around and she had a full time job then get off your lazy ass and get to work!

Hell yeah divorce. These are indeed symptoms of something very wrong in the relationship, so wrong that I don't think it can get worked out anymore. She didn't just hold sex hostage, treating herself like a glorified ***** in order to get chores done, she wants to move out the bedrooom and she isn't looking at him. No one should be together with someone that childish, someone like that isn't mature enough to be married. Do you think that someone that is making sex chart's is reasonable enough to talk it over? And let's work with your assumption that he is indeed not doing enough work and she has explored the other reasonable options to get him to work (and I don't believe she did this), in that case the relationship isn't workable either because he's a lazy bum. If you need to get to the point of sex charts to get him to work, you should cut your losses and get a divorce to. He's obviously making you a horrible person.

Withholding sex as a form of payment is never okay. Never. If someone is angry in a relationship and doesn't want to have sex, they should simply say that. "I don't want to have sex with you. I'm mad at you because you never ____." It is not okay to use sex as a reward. In a marriage, the physical affection should be freely given between both parties. OP, something is seriously wrong with your marriage. Your wife didn't just say that you had to do something to get sex, she made a whole system. Insist on couple's therapy before you end up divorced or simply miserable. Good luck.

Create your own Chart...? She sounds kind of dismissive of intimacy with you :-(

find a Hooker that'll teach her to cut the bullshit