#67 that explains why 50 - 60% of marriages FAIL, it may be normal to cheat on your spouse in today's society but that doesn't make it ok in ANY situation, some couples can make their marriage work after one of them is found to be a cheater but in more situations their marriage ends up failing. Husband's or wives that cheat are scum in my mind, you have somthing great and your throw it all away cuz your selfish and you want more? or in the situation where you fall out of love with your spouse, at least have the decency to tell them and work it out so you dont look like an ass hole. OP that really sux don't tell your mom she really should hear it from your dad. you should have a talk with him ask him if he still wants to be with your mom and if he does tell him that he needs to drop the tramp and fess up to your mother, if he tells her there is a much higher chance that their marriage will work out. If you find out that he dosent really love her any more then make him talk to her (that would suck but its better for the both of them, its not healthy to be in a relationship when either one or both participants dont have feelings for the other, in the long run it would be best for the whole family) , you don't need to get caught up in this, dont get involved unless your dad absolutely refuses to talk with your mom

It would be absolutely funny if you actually told your mom and she goes to confront him, saying you snitched. The both of them patch things up and well.... Sorry though.

Ow. Actually, you totally could tell her. She'd be so distracted by yelling at your father, I doubt she'd even remember that you snuck out. Or you could even say that you followed him because you were suspicious.

Tell her! shes deserves to know..

I think you should tell her. Your dad cheating on someone he's married to (your own mother) is worse than a teenager sneaking out of the house. And he bribed you not to tell her. He is all in the wrong. Even if he is your dad and you love him...it's just not right. Your mom will most likely eventually find out and if she ever finds out that you also knew and didn't tell her she might be a little hurt by that. FYL

95: wtf?!?! 1st off, the OP dznt deserve it, 2nd off, nothing says the OP is black, and 3rd off, even if s/he is, that's no reason u rasist asshole!

say that u followed ur dad cuz u were suspicious, and tell her! once a cheater always a cheater. but u should also blackmail his ass for awhile. and if he tries to blackmail u back, juss pretend u dont care cuz yall both know what he did is wayy worse.

Omg #45 you're an ass too! Her mom needs to know!!! I'm really sorry.. I found out my dad was cheating on my mom too.. they also divorced and my mom had a really hard time getting over it, but she did. Good luck though =(

It is incredibly selfish of your dad to ask you to keep that secret. He needs to start acting his age and take responsibility for his actions. I don't know the situation, but I can't imagine keeping this from your mother is a good idea... you need to make your dad tell her. I'm sorry for this terrible situation that you're in :( Good luck. And for anyone saying that cheating is "normal", you're all ridiculous. Seriously. Also, don't blackmail him... your mothers feelings are far more important than getting what you want out of your dad. I don't know what's wrong with people these days...

Here's what you have to do: Tell your mom that you were sneaking back in. Tell her that first, then tell her about your father. She won't get you in trouble for being honest, especially if you act like you feel bad, and your mother gets to know the truth. You have a horrible father. I'm sorry, but no father should wager with his child after getting caught cheating. They'd at least try to talk about it first. Better yet, a good father wouldn't cheat in the first place