Shelve your plans

By anon17 - 18/03/2010 13:49 - United States

Today, I discovered that my fiancé had responded to an online missed connection posting. He has been emailing, exchanging pictures and making plans to go out with this girl. We are supposed to be married in the fall and just put down the non-refundable deposit on our reception site. FML
I agree, your life sucks 34 682
You deserved it 3 294

Same thing different taste

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what an asshole...sorry OP sometimes it's the people who we luv most which hurt in the worst possible way. :-(

I want to call you a ****. ..........But that's just an insult to vaginas.

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make him give you the ****** money. Make him pay for that shit. He sounds like the kind of asshole that would be hurt more by losing his money.

OP, this is NOT an FML. An FML would be if you found this out on your wedding day or honeymoon. Consider yourself lucky. At best/worst, this is a "FingerMyLife".

ryan_mcgrath1 0

WTF guys can't have friends that are girls without anything ever happening?

SighOfTheWorld 7

Consider that deposit the amount of money you paid to get a person like that out of your life. Think about it. All the extra years you could have wasted. It was worth paying, wasn't it. I'm so sorry that someone hurt you, and wish you all the best in finding a great man.

I'm going to tell you something right now that you will understand with no one's help soon enough: Good riddance to bad rubbish. The non-refundable deposit and broken heart is a bargain price to pay for the knowledge you now hold in your hand about this person who would likely have: -fathered a few kids with you, -cheated on you the whole while, -exposed you and your children to all manner of communicable sexual diseases, and -eventually either left you or got dumped by you when you finally discovered the truth. Trust me, OP. It's so much better to have hard truth today than hard truth and a wasted life later.

ilysweetcupcake 1

134, I think I might just love you! ;-)

At least you know now, instead of after marrying him when things would be complicated to divorce him. I'm sorry he was such a jerk, but as others have said, you're spared finding out after the fact, and after he's had sex with her. (Believe me, I would've loved to have known about my fiance, instead of finding out he had been having an affair for a year when he admitted to cheating and I called off the wedding.) Use the reception area as a "loving the single life" party with all your friends after you dump him and then go on a fabulous vacation without him. Good luck.

that is what a lot of guys do i see i am a guy and i dont see y girls will go out with guys like them then guys like me i have never had a girl friend and i dont see y not

Your reception site is probably a great place to hold your "I'm single again" party. Get strippers.