So, you were going through missed connection personal ads and saw one where an old friend thought they saw you? You said you had the same thing happen, so I'm just trying to get it straight. There is definitely a huge difference between an old friend sending you a message out of the blue and responding to a personal ad. Also, If the OP knows they were exchanging emails, exchanging pictures and making plans to meet up, wouldn't you think she read those emails? I would think that if she knew they were making plans, that she read the emails. She'd get whether they were old friends or not.

yea, I totally look for old friends on dating sites all the time!

Some people don't like to share. Including me. :P

Thazzzrite, I beat you by 8 minutes. We may still be a minority, but we could be the beginning of s movement! Alexandraa, you are young and can keep up with your man. Eventually, you may want to slow down, but he won't, and you might find that sharing takes some of the pressure off. It would be better to share with a woman you know who contributes to your household rather than some ***** he nails in secret and brings home her soup of disease.

as was mentioned by myself in an earlier fml polygamy can only work if THE OTHER PERSON KNOWS ABOUT IT!!!! If the other person does not know and has not agreed then it is not polygamy it is just cheating.

Lol, soup of disease. :P To each our own I guess, I just can't ever see myself being okay with that.

well said TruckMom

That's exaclty the kind of relationship my fiance and I have. Very well said!! I don't understand how people can say they love someone and want to spend the rest of their life with said person and still keep secrets. If you are open and honest and leave jelousy at the door, sharing can make a relationship better.

again polygamy only works if both parties know and agree to it. Please don't use it as a way to justify cheating. As for the pizza comment loving pizza is a bit different to loving a person.