im sorry, my bf did the same thing so i know its hard being alone but still what she did just sucks, you deserve so much more

That's so messed up! She pretty much dumped you because you joined the Military to benifit her! Well don't let it get ya down man, you can do better than a girl like her.

She was probably just looking for a reason to dump you and maybe she convinced you to join in the first place so she could screw around while you were gone. Good riddance, I say

I know the story, same thing to me. Air Force. Gone a lot. Girlfriend of 4 years. and so on.

She's obviously a stuck up ****.

That's why we all sign up. Good intentions. It is common in the military, though. I am sorry she's being such a bitch. Find someone better. Don't look within the military/in military towns.

"...She said, "I need some time to find myself, I need a little space to think. Maybe we should start seeing other people. Baby, things are moving way too fast for me." So, I picked up what was left of my pride, And I put on my walking shoes, And I got up on that high road, And I did what any gentleman would do.. I, um... I got a brand new girlfriend. We went and jumped off the deep end, Flew out to LA for the weekend, Spent the whole day lyin' on the beach, Wearin' nothin' but a smile, Playin' kissy-kissy, smoochy-smoochy, Talkin' mooshy-mooshy 'bout nothin'. Man, I think I'm on to somethin', Ya know I feel just like a kid again. I got a brand new girlfriend..."

I'm so sorry to hear this :( My fiance is at Ft. Leo-Wood in MO and I could never ever ever imagine leaving him. It sucks that military folks are gone so much, I know first hand, however it's those who give us the freedom to hate it! **** her, you're way better off. Good luck!

WoW......some girls amaze me with their ignorance and/or stupidity. she never deserved you anyways, now go find someone who does. Good Luck OP. Semper Fi (Marine Corps here)

You learned it late, but not too late. Go find a real woman now that you've taken out the garbage.