No one expects a woman to spread her legs for the guy who is nice to her. It may be a shock, but not every guy is an asshole. If he's nice, it'll be because he is a nice guy generally. He wants a simple relationship where he feels comfortable. If it progresses, then great. But he doesn't expect you to simply spread your legs. That's your choice, and he will understand it. From the sound of things, the guy OP mentions has social anxiety, and the courage it would have taken for him to actually ask is hard to build up.

#106, you have a point, but relationships aren't all about sex, even to guys. Sometimes we you could have real feelings for a girl/woman and she just doesn't return them, and you can't figure out why. Especially because there's this perception that women complain they can't find any "nice guys." If you feel like you are the "nice guy" yet she continues to overlook you, it's frustrating and confusing, and demoralizing. Obviously that's not true of every situation, but that's what most guys refer to when they talk about the "friend zone." Most people don't get pissed off and call a woman a bitch like the guy in this FML. This guy clearly has some other emotional/social issues he's dealing with.

139 - Agreed. Any guy who uses the "friend-zone" explanation on every woman that has rejected them, yeah, that's just piggish of them, but there are legit cases where guys get friend-zoned for no good reason.

I think, "I just don't feel that way about you" is a good enough reason. But I agree that it can be frustrating , whether your male or female, to always be put in the friend zone when you're interested in someone. (It's not just something women do to men.) If everyone you like "just doesn't feel that way about you," you begin to wonder what's wrong with you. But I still don't think OP deserved to be called a bitch. She was asked out by someone she barely knew, who she found creepy. She had every right to say no, just like she would even if the guy were society's idea of Prince Charming.

My point was that she doesn't need to give him a reason to why she doesn't want to date him, and the problem is that guys generally DON'T understand that, sadly. To me it doesn't seem like anxiety, more like an overly cocky guy that got angry because he got rejected, thus disappointed because he had EXPECTATIONS (Keyword, hinthint.) At the same time I do understand that is not fun being rejected, but you deal with it instead of making it into some trend to expect girls to be into you. *shrug*

106 I agree. You couldn't have put it better. I think a lot of it comes down to chemistry, and if I don't feel chemistry for someone I won't waste my time. I see guys complain about being friend zoned all of the time because they are nice and think you owe them a date at the least. Guys also need to learn that some are just simply friends. I have tons of hot guy friends but I would never date them. I don't have that feeling for them. Guys need to stop feeling because they are nice and hang out that they are supposed to be more. It's also a turn off when guys complain about being in the friend zone. It makes them seem entitled and whiney. You should date someone you feel chemistry for. If you date people that your friends with because they are good looking and fun but don't have chemistry for, then you are not separating your friends and people you could really have something with. Your friends are your friends, and your romantic interests are just that.

Yeah, because really nice husbands yell that you're a friend zoning bitch.

That's why no one likes you, freak.