By instinct - 12/06/2013 03:06 - Australia - Doncaster East

Spicy
Today, after years of faking pleasure with my boyfriend, I visited the gynaecologist. As soon as she touched my privates I instinctively let out a fake moan. FML
I agree, your life sucks 38 826
You deserved it 78 263

Same thing different taste

Top comments

Why fake pleasure? Why not try to teach your boyfriend how to pleasure you, instead of trucking him into thinking he's doing ok. Kind of defeats the purpose for sex.

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so you fake it, big deal, dump him, get a girlfriend, use kinky sex toys, move on..

caysters 12

Faking ****** doesn't help either of you. It means he thinks you're happy, and you're agitated because you're not happy. I use to tell my ex, you want me to moan, make me. He never did. Lol

MsMourningStar 22

That's your fault. Guys are easy enough to train, there is no reason you need to fake it.

Woof woof. You make us sound like golden retrievers...

Sometimes that's what you act like.

kriseliz 9

Sex is a personal thing. Pleasure from it can take a lot of forms. Perhaps OP has trouble reaching orgasim, but enjoys the intimacy. I have never known a man that would be totally cool with the girl not having an orgasim, so she fakes it because it makes things better for both of them. Some people like bondage, others fake it; whatever and however people like their sex, that's none of our business. The reaction to being touched at all is the problem. OP needs help with that one.

@105 I would argue that it became our business when the OP decided to put her sex life up for public discussion.

meherm 11

Why is it so hard for girls to communicate with their partners instead of faking it. I just politely show my boyfriend what I like and then he proceeds to copy. After all as a girl you should know your body better than anyone so why not show it to your partner as well! Faking it is just cruel!

ginawater19 13

Uhm.. I don't even know what to say. But your bf is either a needle dick or you're having some issues down there. On the other hand, I'm sure your gyno loved it

Ydi because you shouldn't be faking. Why deprive yourself of the pleasure of sex. Have an honest talk with your BF. if he's a good guy he'll want to learn how to please you. If not, he's not a keeper better to move on