By sarcasticjane - 04/12/2015 18:17 - United States - Minot
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OP here. Thank you all for your comments and stories. They definitely made my day. I am in the psychology field. When I first started in the field, parents were more apt to work WITH their children and change behaviors in the home. It was not something that took 14 years to realize as much as it's amazing how in just 14 years the parents have changed into the "fix my child" and don't want to work on their part of the issues. Not all parents; I still have a few good ones in the group, but that day was back to back parents. Thank you all again.
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It's natural human evolution. We start as sweet and innocent children. Then as we mature and grow we become jaded and cruel adults. It's the cycle of life.
People aren't born assholes, they learn from parents, so don't be an asshole when raising children
Couldn't agree more. Parents all think their children are made out of glass and can't handle anything slightly bad happening to them
I used to substitute teach and I still work at an afterschool program, but I'm mostly a public librarian now. 99% of the children I have a) crossover with from my various jobs and b) were God-awful in school/afterschool have parents so abhorrent that it actually changes my mind. One of my "favorite" stories from my subbing days was the time that a Kindergartner asked me why I was wearing such a weird glove, and I told him that my arm hurt and that the glove helped a bit. He nodded, waited until I turned away three minutes later, and grabbed my arm with both hands and dug his nails into my arm. He didn't quite break the skin (he was five, after all), but with my nerve damage he may as well have shot and stabbed me. It was near the end of the day, so I managed to hang on until school let out before I collapsed...anyhow, kid gets a week out and a stern lecture as well as being forced to apologize. Cue two years later. I'm at my new, spiffy job as a library clerk and am shelving in the children's section when someone screams "Miss Budx!" and throws his little arms around me. It's my little assaulter, and he is so happy to see me that he's giggling and almost crying. I awkwardly pat the top of his head and disengage him from me so I can talk to him. And before I can say a word other than "Hello to you too!", a morbidly obese woman comes barreling into the room, roars at me like a demon from Hell, and grabs the kid's arm so tightly that I guarantee there was bruising. And then she dug her nails into his arm, just like he had done me, and dragged him screaming out of the library. Last I heard, they had moved away. I still worry about that little kid.
That is the saddest story I've heard in a long time.
Adults<Children<Animals<Plants<Dirt
Yup. Kids are waaaaaaaay better than adults.
So many parents' behavior today is utterly deplorable. We require licenses to drive cars. Some people should have licenses to be parents.
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Not surprising. At all. The little ones tend to be nicer or better behaved than the adults.
It's a shame they ended up as curdled milk rather than the fine wine all those cards talk about!