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By Anonymous - 29/08/2015 11:28 - United States - Manhattan Beach

Today, I caught my girlfriend cheating on me. Now she's threatening to kill herself if I don't forgive her. FML
I agree, your life sucks 30 001
You deserved it 2 125

Same thing different taste

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KeannaLove 32

I will never understand how people can take suicide so lightly. She sounds like an awful person all around. You're better off OP.

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She's full of shit. She won't kill herself. She's too in love with herself. My ex husband did the exact same thing to me. I caught him cheating and when I said I wanted a divorce he threatened to kill himself. It worked exactly one more time. The third time I caught him cheating, I was done with his bullshit. He said, "I'm gonna kill myself!" and I told him, "Shut up. No you won't" Well guess what? Five years later that bag of dicks is still alive and onto his third or fourth wife because he's still putting women through the same bullshit. You are in an abusive relationship, OP. Get out now. The longer you take to get out of an abusive relationship, the more difficult it becomes. Trust me on this. I know from experience.

And what if she does? That could **** him over instantly.

leogachi 15

@40 How would it **** him over? Staying with someone emotionally abusive would **** him over.

She won't, 40. I myself experienced ongoing suicidal thoughts at one point in my life. I didn't go around throwing the threat out there whenever I didn't get my way or wherever I was facing the consequences of treating other people like shit. If she cared enough about her relationship with OP to kill herself over it, she wouldn't have risked it by cheating in the first place. Think about it: Is it easier to be faithful or to kill yourself?

You don't deserve this guilt put on you, she is in the wrong; but if you believe she will hurt or kill herself, you NEED to call authorities. This way you know she is safe and to let others know you did not tell her to or push her to self harm or suicide. And depending on exact situation, especially if done multiple times, is a form of abuse and manipulation to make you stay with her as she threatens to do these things if you don't. Be careful, OP.

Someone who is close to her needs to know about this so you don't have to hold yourself accountable if she follows through...not that it would be anywhere near your fault either way but I wouldn't want to be dealing with that shit all by myself if I were you

as someone who has battled depression and suicidal thoughts, I don't think you should take it lightly. I don't think you should cater to her and forgive her or date her, but get her help. if you do nothing else call the police and explain the situation to them

Yeah, I was thinking that you could talk to one of her close friends or siblings. Make sure that she has a support system in place, and then let them support her.

Hope you don't go to jail OP.She's a bitch.

I highly doubt that she's going to do it. She's just using suicide as a way to manipulate you

Correction. "Today I caught my ***** of a now ex girlfriend cheating on me......" Good riddance to bad rubbish OP. Been there. Done that. Cut that bitch out of your life for good.

let her do it it'll save you from killing the cheating bitch :)