I like how everybody is fighting with eachother on this fmylife site.!? Wow getta life.

I'm sorry I feel for you My mom was looking thro my dads email and caught him cheating He denied it and 'explained' She forgave him I didn't Dumb him Don't stay with him You'll be hurt worse

Is there any way we can get vdrummer7 banned...? Any at all...? But, OP you should have ASKED you husband if he was cheating on you, or confronted him if you had any reason not to trust him. I voted FYL because even though you broke into his e-mail, he shouldn't have cheated on you.

Totally YDI... I mean, if you're the type who'd try to crack his password, no wonder the man needs more. Trust & communication, you know. If you had tried to work things out when you should have by having civil conversations, he may not have ever even felt the need to compensate with other people whatever he was missing in the marriage. You're definitely not the only one to blame, of course, since he could have been the better person, but you still had a part in it. You could possibly try to communicate now, although "I cracked your email password and......" might not be as good as the "you know, I feel we're drifting apart" you could have said before. Well, good luck? P.S. - the password may not mean a thing. For a site I sometimes log on, my username/password is still about how I'll love my previous love forever, simply because I'm not sure how to change it and because... well... I don't care. But that doesn't mean I still like that guy. So... you can't know for sure.

That's a dealbreaker, ladies!

get even, cheat on him... whats your number?? (no fat chicks)

Well if you cant trust him, which evidently you cant, then no wonder he cheated on you. YDI.

And you didn't expect anything like this when you cracked his password?

Most of the people here are saying she had no right to look through her husband's email. However we don't know the reasons why she wanted to look through it. Maybe she had a feeling that something was going on and just didn't post that in her FML because you can get caught up in details. No one, under ANY circumstances, EVER deserves to be cheated on! Not even in marriage. If he was ballsy enough to **** around on her he should have been man enough to tell his wife that he was no longer interested in the relationship. A divorce is always better than finding out by surprise that you're playing second fiddle to the harlot next door!

YDI for snooping, but FYL since he actually was cheating the fact his password is his ex-girlfriend's name is completely irrelevant to the actual story