Another repeat. Shut the **** up this is obviously a twisted copy. Loser

that sux but you WERE kinda invading his property. you know what they say about eavesdroppers.

Maybe you can hold off on your next marriage so you don't have to settle for some cheating bastard that forces you to frantically scrabble his password to discover what you suspected all along. You know, as long as you're making money enough to support yourself, you really don't need to be married to any guy who'll have you. If you're not making enough money, you can work on that.

I'm sorry but all the people saying YDI for snooping are total idiots and assholes. Obviously you suspected something was up but you wanted to have solid proof before you confronted your soon to be ex (I hope) husband. It's far worse to confront your SO is cheating because of the way they're acting, only to find out there's nothing going on (and therefore create far more problems to deal with) than it is to hack an email account to confirm your suspicions. Furthermore, all the people saying "oh well if he was acting secretive then you should've known." Umm, first off, maybe something was bugging him and he didn't want to bring it up on his own. OR he was planing a surprise and didn't want her to find out. I swear to god 90% of the people who respond to FML's have little to no capacity of thought.

sucks that he's cheating but you shouldn't be in his personal shit.

I think this one is fake. How and why would you guess that his password was his ex-girlfriends's name. I mean when would that even occur to you? But if it is true YDI for going through his stuff. It sounds like you tried to figure out his password for days which means you need to get a life and it figures that you were cheated on.

There´s never enough information on these "cheating" FMLs to come to a correct conclusion. One thing is for sure though, she's obviously psychotic (I mean how many passwords did she try before finding the right one? Obsessed much?) Here's a few possible reasons besides the above for a YDI: 1) You've gained an absurd amount of weight since you were married and used the tired line "If you love me you won't care what I look like" 2) You have constantly snooped around in his business/career/job before and he now hates you but was staying in the relationship for children, alimony, child support, etc reasons (can't say I blame him either for this) 3) You are far far far far more worried about him cheating than staying attractive/sexually exciting for him. 4) You knew he was a douche before you married him (did he have an armband tattoo?) and now you're reaping what you had sown.

Uhmmmmm...sucks ass for you, but YDI for invading his privacy!

Being in a marriage where you have to crack your husband's email account he uses for cheating with SEVERAL people is the worst part. The not-really- ex girlfriend's name in the password just adds insult to injury. What are you doing that your husband has the time, energy and inclination to cheat with SEVERAL people?

#114 Why the hell is her becoming unattractive a good excuse for her husband to cheat on her? Yeah she shouldn't have snooped, but he shouldn't have cheated. Hopefully your significant other cheats on you because of your appearance.. then you'll finally understand how much cheating hurts to the person in the relationship.