that's kinda weird, and stupid. why would you just assume she would say yes anyways..

If you never take a single other piece of dating advice in your entire life, just listen to what these people are telling you. Doing what you had planned is guaranteed to freak a girl out. When you think about it, this isn't so much a FML as the day you dodged a bullet by not blowing it with 'the girl of your dreams' by doing something stupid.

Your an idiot. period.

Uuuhhhmm very creepy. If someone bought me a necklace like that for our first date I would avoid them as much as possible. So creepy.

that's mad creepy, dude

Its kind of odd that you would do that on a first date, but if you every get married give it to her as part of an enagement present, and remind her of the story :D I bet she'd laugh. :)

why would you do something like that for what sounds like a 1st date? that's actually kind of creepy and borderline stalkerish

your fault for going overboard

First date No-Nos... Buying and giving engraved jewelry Giving them a family heirloom "This was Grandmas favorite scarf" Giving them a "Piece of you" literally ala Van Gogh Buying them a Puppy/kitten Buying them a stuffed animal bigger than they are Start crying saying, "I just have so much love inside of me that I want to share with Youuuuu" Showing them your Scrapbook of Photos you've taken of them unawares Telling them that you watch them sleep Get the Idea yet??? Don't put her up on a pedestal like that. Say you two did get married, there will come a day when this "Perfect Woman" of yours will go into the bathroom while you are showering or shaving, and take one of the most foul smelling dumps on the planet, and you'll wonder how the **** you got there. Just mentally Fast Forward to that moment, chill out A LOT, and you won't come off so creepy/weird/desperate.

man... most girls would find that extremely creepy and/or tacky.