By iTried - 28/01/2016 12:12 - United States - Houston

Today, I found out my best friend was cheating on her boyfriend. After confronting her boyfriend and showing him proof, he responded with denial and didn't believe me. Now my whole circle of friends not only think I'm trying to start a rumor, but that I'm a home wrecker. FML
I agree, your life sucks 22 581
You deserved it 8 788

Same thing different taste

Top comments

deathstroke990 22

if she's your best friend, why not approach her about it first? instead of directly going to the boyfriend

This is usually a lose-lose situation. Although, I don't know why you confronted the boyfriend instead of your best friend. She's the one cheating, and should be responsible for admitting the truth to her boyfriend.

Comments

diego92 13

Eventually people can't accept reality. Let them believe they are in love.

Sometimes we try our best to help people but they just don't want it. Im sure you felt you were doing the right thing at the moment.

I think OP is friends with the boyfriend, which gives her every right to tell him that his bitch of a girlfriend cheated on him. I don't understand why everyone's upset with OP, she did the right thing - the boyfriend is just delusional and the best friend is selfish. She won't even admit to her wrong actions. She'd rather let everyone think OP is crazy and an awful person, when in reality, it's her.

No she didn't. Their relationship is still none of her business.

For all the people saying she deserved it and that she should have stuck by her best friend, why should she? I've been in that situation. My best friend was dating an amazing guy who really cared about her, I became friends with him through that. When I found out she was cheating on him I sat for about a week trying to decide what to do. I eventually decided to ask her how she felt about him and after realising she didn't give a shit about him either way, I decided to tell him and I stopped speaking to her. Sometimes people just change for the worse and no matter how close you used to be before, it's never the same again.

YDI. How was it any of your business? And you showed a complete lack of respect by going behind her back. Ever heard of asking first?

Wyrmflight 13

sort of like how the friend showed a complete lack of respect by going behind her boyfriend's back and cheating on him?

Cheating is ****** up and wrong I don't care if the girl was the OP best friend. She did the right thing by telling the boyfriend. Why should she let the best friend hurt what is possibly a good guy? There are so few of those left in this world if I was being cheated on I'd want to be told.

Maybe because this is what "best friend" means. If you say "I just killed someone", your best friend will say "hold on, I have a shovel" rather than "I am reporting you to the police".

YDI. YDI. YDI. Next time, talk to your "friend".

MrZsDad 19

YDI, and don't ever say she is your best friend again.

halo111806_fml 2

where is the loyalty? my loyalty always is with my best friend... not their boyfriend!