Time for a new job and a new boyfriend.

I'm sorry, do you NOT like chilling at home all day and letting him bring in the bacon!!??

he took one for the family ;)

you shud never have quit ur job for that chauvinistic reasoning. sorry that u got cheated but ydi

Did he *make* you quit your job, or did he say if you *wanted* to quit you could? My husband is the only one who works in our house at the minute, but we both look at finances together so that we know if we're doing ok or not while I try to find a job. If you weren't looking at the finances together it's partially your fault, although it is still no excuse for him to cheat! He should've told you money was tight.

Sounds like a narcissistic, abusive piece of garbage. I hope you're able to get away.

Before I commented this there was 69 comments.??

Maybe you should "provide" him with a bitch slap across the face.

"made me quit my job" that should have been enough of a red flag to end it right there.

You guys are right. He didn't make me, I chose to quit that job. I was convinced he would provide for us. But you'll also be happy to know his stuff is out of our place living with his mother and he's single.