I feel for you, OP. Had an ex-gf that suggested we get a joint checking account. I was young and stupid, so I agreed. Turns out she was HORRIBLE with money, and as I fed the account my paychecks, she drained it buying garbage. I only found out when I received a rejection letter from the National Archives/Copyright office for insufficient funds. I was submitting my band's collected works for copyright.

Well if you never sporadically monitored your finances then I'd say you deserved it just a little but on the other hand what a gold digging bitch for taken advantage

Wow the only thing I can say is at least you kno how much

Reminds me of this awful quote I heard: " A woman can make a man a millionaire... if he started out as a billionaire."

YDI..you should have noticed some Red Flags if it was her expenses and it it were your's then you have a problem.

Holy crap, it's time for a new girlfriend. Bonus points if you can send that debt packing with her so she suffered the consequences and not you.

What the freak has she been buying?

Fyl but I have a question, how did ou not notice it? Did she put you in debt all at once or over the period of 6 years?

YDI for not checking sooner