OP. crap ! thats messed up ! your ex husband is a douche, glad to hear he's labeled "Ex." now. :)

@metalhead--It IS **** her life AND **** her son's life. As a single mama who struggles day to day because my daughter's father likes to be a deadbeat, I can tell you: The emotional pain my daughter feels when her papi blows her off breaks my heart. I get to be the one to dry her tears and I am also the one who listens to her yell because she is frustrated and cannot vent her frustrations to him. Deadbeat fathers hurt the whole family unit, not just the children.

agree #2

I feel really lucky my dad is in my life. my mother on the other hand.. is not >.<

exactly, epoh!!! My aunt has a deadbeat ex-husband who claims he should have visiting rights over his daughters. Even though he hasn't visited them in 3 years, won't pay child support, has been in jail over this, and won't show up to the court cases (for the past 3 years) for those rights! Plus, my aunt is also already remarried. So he's trying to **** up my cousins' and aunt's lives! Deadbeat fathers/husbands suck ass. Nothing better than ass wipes, they are!

It IS confusing, ashlynn, cos he sounds like he's all heart.

this would be your son's fml, not yours.

so the problem is

your ex husband seems like a loser...good thing u divorced him

If your kid posted this, I would feel sorry. This is not an FML. This is an FHL (**** his life)