What a poor excuse for a manager! It's his job to take over if a customer makes you uncomfortable or in this case fear for your life!

Befriend her stalker? Are you mental??

How come there's all these FMLs about stalkers? Shouldn't go just call the police? And even if you did they would handle it not just give him a slap on the wrist. Right?

I've had a stalker so many times it's so creepy

That can't be any good , if I was you I would tell the cops about your stalker and maybe he will get the hint to leave you alone .

I don't know about other restaurants, but where I work you have the right to refuse to serve and kick someone out if you don't feel comfortable doing so. If that doesn't work or you can't do that, I would suggest to get a restraining order, or get a new job if you can. Good luck with this. Hope you can figure something out, and quick too.

Legally, since the manager is paying you for your job he can't accept bribes from you. What he should have done was do it for you out of good will.

Is that even legal?

At least you have a stalker lol, be proud about it!

Your comment : I have one of those too, OP. Except she moved when we were about 10 years old clear across the country and makes 600 (not exaggerating) facebook pages just to creep on my stuff and steal pictures of my son. It's very scary. Especially since it's been 12 years! I hope since your stalker is able to be stopped since your in the same city/near each other.