dude, eff that. I was in the same boat. This is one of those instances where you HAVE to be selfish. If you don't have any kids, RUN RUN RUN! If she really is as crazy and depressive as you say she is, do you really want to have/raise kids in that type of environment? My ex wife was a nut job and I left her. It was one of the hardest things I ever had to do, but I'm happier now. If I wouldn't have done that, I never would have met my fiancee/woman of my dreams. So just divorce her now. If you don't you're going to be miserable for the rest of your life.

wow you people are heartless. regardless of whether or not she means it or if shes being manipulative, no one has the right to be happy that she might end her life. ive been in this situation before and as hard as it is, you need to put yourself first. youre not in this for the right reasons. she needs to get help because even if she doesnt intend to kill herself, there must be some underlying issues there for her to even threaten it. you should talk to someone too. this has probably put a ridiculous amount of pressure on you and youre not happy in your marriage. i know when i was in your situation it made me feel worthless and like i wasnt good enough for anyone else. please consider getting help of your own. i really hope you have a good support system because regardless of what happens with your wife, you need people in your life for you....

If you leave your wife for this new woman, then at least 2 out of the 3 people involved would be happy. The third person (your wife) would have been unhappy either way. Besides, if you leave her, at least there is a chance that possible future changes in her life might help make her happy too.

Your wife is probably bluffing. Even if she's not, there's no sense in ruining your life (more) cuz she's crazy. I've had 2 gf's tell me they would prolly kill themselves if I broke up with them. I took that as my sign to break up with them immediately. Nothing of the sort happened, afterward. Now go get your groove back.

Leave that psycho bitch now!!!!!

So just divorce her. If she doesn't kill herself, woo hoo you've escaped the manipulative liar. If she does kill herself, that's her problem.

Dude you will be miserable your whole life... Get rid of that train wreck and go for the girl you actually like.

I dated a guy like that once. He said if we ever broke up he'd kill himself. I was afraid of him because he was a psychopath so i actually took my chances and broke up with him, and he's well and alive today. People who say things like that just want to show you that they love you.. I think; but it's in a very scary way and actually ends up showing the person they're saying these things to that they're ******' NUTS. Dump the psycho bitch and go for the perfect girl. :)

It's not your problem, honestly. Why sacrifice your own happiness for this woman who can receive much needed help from other people who are trained to deal with this stuff.

Hey...the key word here is divorce. She never said she would kill herself if you: Slept with the hot girl Moved out Stopped talking to her Got a restraining order As long as you don't divorce her, it looks like you're in the clear.