Then divorce her to call that bluff. If she actually does it, no skin off your bones because she doesn't value her life enough so she want's to lower urs as well in hope to control you.

Divorce her. If she doesn't kill herself at first, then take the initiative and do it for her.

You should: ask a therapist for advice on how to break it off with her and tell the situation, tell her parents how crazy she is and to talk to her to become more normal or just straight up be like: "your crappy because you always depressed and bitchy, and its not fair for me to hold me hostage like this etc etc". Seems like your wife is definitely bipolar and needs help. You can either force her to get therapy and stick it out like a real strong couple, or be all lazy and just ditch her and go for the new girl.

If you married a girl simply because she threatened to kill herself if you didn't, YDI. What? Did you think things would just get better from there?

ya give her to a psyciatric place and divorse her and don't mind her at all

I believe your position in this relationship is referred to as an "enabler." ... ... Although "the bitch" also qualifies. By indulging in your wife's threats, you are not helping her OR yourself. Grow a pair, get the woman to a shrink, and live your life. If you refuse to, it's no longer her fault but yours.

So? Let the bitch off herself, she'll be doing the world a favor. Plus, you can get in good with the other one by playing the widower card.

I feel bad for you but a person like that cannot be good for you or anyone else its time to move on.

man up and grow a setq

You are not responsible for other peoples happiness.