By Anonymous - 02/11/2010 12:17 - United States

Today, I moved back in with my parents in order to help them with the mortgage, so they don't lose the house that has been in our family for three generations. I also found out that I now have a curfew, and so does my husband and our 3 year old son. FML
I agree, your life sucks 38 583
You deserved it 5 134

Same thing different taste

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LoveINKs 0

Tell them, WHEN THEY PAY ALL THE BILLS, THEY CAN MAKE THE RULES! or just life them in their room!

MissErikaHart 0

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PoserDisposer 0

If you're helping with the mortgage then you have power. Threaten to move out and not help pay.

This is fake, if the house had been passed down 3 times already the mortgage would be paid off

starberries 0

Parents will always be strict no matter what unless they're not!! That was very clever, thanks.

TempestRain 0

If you are paying rent then they have no say. You are an adult by the way. Tell them nicely to "shove it!" ;)

That's b.s. If I were you, I'd say either I live as I please(within reason) or I'm leaving and not helping you out. It's not worth it.

pirate943 0

it takes 3 generations to pay off one mortgage?

It is possible that to inherit the house from the deceased parents, OP's parent had to payoff her sibling(s)' interest in the house. For example, if I were to inherit a $500,000 house from my parents, I would have to pay off my four siblings' interest in the home and would therefore need a mortgage of approximately $400,000.00.

"It is possible that to inherit the house from the deceased parents, OP's parent had to payoff her sibling(s)' interest in the house. " Only if the house was inherited by all the siblings. Anyway, my guess is that that's not the problem here; the OP emphasises how this house has been in the family for three generations. If the parents are paying out their siblings' share in the house, then if they 'lost' the house it'd still stay in the family by going to one of the other siblings. Unless the siblings forced the OP's parents to actually take out a mortgage to pay them up front, in which case they'd be pretty unsympathetic siblings.

z0mbieT3ddyB3ar 0

why can't you just lend them money and stay in your own house?

AmoraLynn 6

Raising a small child, they probably can't afford to help pay a mortgage and pay rent for another home. Moving in they are helping to pay for the house and they don't have to pay rent somewhere else.

RedPillSucks 31

Not everyone has money to pay their own rent/mortgage AND lend money to pay someone else's mortgage. Edit - didn't see the above comment.