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Read it... and then you'll know!
why is there still a mortgage if it's been in your family for 3 generations? talk about a high interest rate! lol
The parents either borrowed against a paid-for house or kept re-financing their mortgage instead of paying it off.
more likely we're about using your house like an ATM
You agreed to live in their house - THEIR house. If someone moved in with me, I don't care what the reason, they are not making the rules and they're not keeping me up all night. And I'm sure you're making out in this deal too. Stop whining or move out, if you can.
I sort of agree... If you're living in someone else's house you need to be respectful. BUT the parents can't control to the point of ridiculousness, either. They need to respect their SIL/daughter/grandchild's rights too. OP went there to HELP their parents. They have every right to just leave if the parents are being unreasonable. It's not a case where OP was short on cash and had to resort to moving back in with the fam. If you're quiet enough about coming in even at 1am, it shouldn't be an issue. I don't know why they tried to give a curfew to the three year old.
I agree with Steff. And there's the matter of true ownership here, too. If OP's helping with the mortgage, is it really still just the parents' house?
well, you guys need a sit-down. dad, mom we are here to help you with the mortgage but we do not agree with this curfew of yours. we are big peoples now, and do not like this newly-imposed restriction so no curfew, all fair.
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Tell them, WHEN THEY PAY ALL THE BILLS, THEY CAN MAKE THE RULES! or just life them in their room!
move out if it's that bad