he was a jerk in the first place, but girls should also realize guys forgive and forget much faster than girls. You want to take a break then I wouldn't count on coming back to a more passionate lover.

It is really difficult when you care about someone, but getting rid of him will only help you in the long run. You can't find a guy who will treat you right if you spend all your time being hung up on one who treats you like dirt.

After knowing what being cheated on felt like, why would you then make another girl feel that way? I know it seems very difficult, but you HAVE to stop. You have to drop him, and move on. He is a total jerk, and your life will never be happy if you care about him and give in.

some of these people don't realize what it's like to be in that situation. As much of a jerk he is, i'm sure you care about him. Regardless of this, moving on would be better because your relationship with him will go nowhere.

Is the sex good? If so I don't see the harm in going back for seconds

ha! i would want to have sympathy for you.. but i think you're just one of them...cheater! You've been hurt and now you're also doing it --- did that really give you justice? made you feel better? i don't think so. if you think you deserve better... maybe you should start thinking that you're better off without him and that you can do so much better. I can't believe that you even regret the break up. i think you've done it because you only want to prove yourself..that you are so much better..but it turns out that you're just making a fool of yourself and you know it's not going to get better, why waste time!..the TRUTH is...eventhough that guy cheated on his new gf with you, YOU WILL NEVER HAVE HIM BACK. sorry on your part

#21 is right. It really sucks to be cheated on and you should never, ever put another girl through that. The fact that he won't stick to just you should tell you that he's not worth it. It's also completely useless to tell his girlfriend about it. It's not your place, and will only create more drama. You would get absolutely nothing out of it except he will hate you and she probably will too.

ok if you were trying to teach him a lesson then maybe you shouldnt encourage what you were trying to fix... he just wants to do whatever he wants with whoever he wants but still say he has a girlfriend... my friend did the exact same thing. hes not my friend anymore cuz its the best way to make an ass out of yourself.

you're not doing the wrong thing...he was in the wrong. Everyone else is wrong for making you feel like you've done something harmful. The same exact thing happened to me a year ago. It carried on for a couple months regardless of my expression of dislike. He said "I still want to be with you, I just want to my explore my options." We ended up back together but life has been a living hell since, leave him and don't look back. Don't be his friend, just forget about him. If he tries to keep you, don't let him because even if he changes, he'll never feel bad for what he did to you and he'll conveniently forget everything that happened. Leave.

Honestly, that's pretty pathetic. Ditch him and find a real man who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. You're only enabling him, and he obviously doesn't give a shit about you.