By Alisha Marie - 04/08/2010 04:20 - United States

Today, I told my boyfriend I was pregnant. He went outside for a "breather" and never came back. FML
I agree, your life sucks 56 897
You deserved it 9 040

Same thing different taste

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Not much of a man there. And he would have been a shity father too!!!!!! Op You can do better I'm sure

barbie08 0

12- you are seriously ******* retarded. who ever said that was her ex?! And no hunny DON'T kill your precious baby! Congrats(: And if he's not man enough to take care of his baby then your probably better off with out him anyways. Remember; it takes a BOY to create a baby BUT a MAN to raise one. Be strong for your little one. My prayers are with you. And best of wishes(:

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Nothing wrong with bastard children. *twitchtwitch*

Hi! Where are you in the rest of the discussions? And where the hell is Abby!

Oh yeah. The baby I refuse to acknowledge. *shifty eyes* ...... RUNNING AWAY NOW.

*already gone* ... *tumbleweeds blow by*

I've been good. Classes are almost done! :D ....But then I start again in September. Damn. Haha, you?

Right now, taking sociology, psychology, and nutrition. Lol, and September's gonna suck. I got to choose all the courses I wanted for this semester because it was a general program... September's a different program - university transfer, and the courses are preselected. So I have to take Psych again (different class, though), History, Computer Applications, Writing Strategies and Philosophy. Hoorah? :P

AudaciouslyInsan 0

Decisions... Decisions... Decisions... You all need to realize that other people have different opinions and those opinions will not change even if you force how you feel onto them. In all honesty, what all of you say isn't going to matter anyways because it is OP's decision. She's the one that's pregnant, not you. However you may deal with it, doesn't mean anything to anyone else. Well, at least it shouldn't but apparently I was wrong after reading these posts. It's not murder unless there is a heartbeat, it's not murder if it's legal, a child may end up abused or worse if put into foster care, a child could find a happy home with adopted parents later on, all of this is true. We get it, picking fights over it is pointless though so knock it off. As for you OP, I hope everything works out how YOU choose it to be.

"... it's not murder if it's legal" is a debatable point. According to the legal definition, you're right. But what we clearly now see as murder has been legal in the past too— it once was legal to kill a slave or a Jewish person in a concentration camp, for example. Don't misunderstand me; I'm not saying abortion is equal to those things. Just pointing out a flaw in your reasoning.

Yeah, I'm not sure about that logic either. "We should never forget that everything Adolf Hitler did in Germany was "legal" and everything the Hungarian freedom fighters did in Hungary was "illegal." ~Martin Luther King, Jr., "Letter from Birmingham Jail," Why We Can't Wait, 1963

AudaciouslyInsan 0

Well, my reasoning comes from two hours worth of sleep and so I probably could have worded things better. However, I don't believe that Hitler and whatnot should even be brought into a discussion like this. It's not the torture and killing of a conscious being. But like I said, I can probably word things better to make it seem somewhat less wrong. It's all how you view it.

He went to by a crib at babys r us. you'll see him soon. :p

Speaking of making assumptions... I don't believe to OP actually said the boyfriend who left was the father. Maybe he's out giving some other guy the good news?

Well that sounds you guys were unprotected and uncareful and totally not planned to have children if he walks out just like that. Maybe your boyfriend needed more time alone and he will call you in a couple of days, this may have shocked him more than you. Try to call him in a few days and ask him to come over, don't force him into anything by screaming and crying like an emotional instable teenager but do it subtle like a woman. I'm sorry if he really did just leaves you like that and never speaks to you again even if you don't keep the baby or something. But still YDI for getting pregnant unexpected like that but I hope whatever you choose to do with the baby will turn out good for you.

okay to all those saying he needs time to think about it, he should of thought of the consequences to having sec the minute they started *******......sex does lead to pregnancy either way so, if you're not prepared for it then don't have sex...sure protection is there but when it fails YOU're fuuuccckkkkedddddddd!

rkcraig53 0

Even if he stays with you, or marries you, research shows he will end up hating you for using the Baby Trap to force him into a permanent relationship with you. The pill is free if you have no money. If he stays at all, less than 5 years, avg 2 years and he will walk away from you forever!

bridawg 0

are you sure you didn't go inside and never come back lol

OK if you weren't using birth control...YDI and its that simple. F your baby's Life. If you were and you are one of the unlucky few that gets pregnant anyway then FYL ...and his....and mostly your baby's. Theres a few other 'baby-trap' or 'he wasnt the father' type possible scenarios but they are all basically YDIs. Overriding that, if he's your steady boyfriend and you're having sex and you havent at least had a *conversation* about what you and he both would do if there was an 'accident' then perhaps you guys should spend a bit more time talking to eachother and a bit less time tugging at eachother's undies. Then at least you wouldn't be so surprised when he hi-tails it. (sorry, you might not be surprised at all...in which case, YDI) My one hope is that some weasley little horndog or trampy cum-bucket read this FML and have a good think about some of the what-ifs involved in being sexually active and some of the ****-up that occur all the time. Good luck OP, for your kid's sake.