By draegoncode - 26/07/2010 04:34 - France

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Today, I told my girlfriend of 2 years that I was sexually abused as a kid. She was only the third person I've told. She reacted by breaking up with me because I "might do something" to her kids. FML
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FFML_314 11

Abuse is a horribly traumatic thing to endure at any point in your life. I'm sorry OP that you had to go through that. I hope the person that hurt you is rotting in jail or in hell. I have 0 tolerance for abusers. I hate people that make excuses for someone that's abusive. You shouldn't be able to walk this earth if you allow such evil to escape from your body! I have dealt with so many sex offenders and it makes me sick to think about the things these people would do. Your girlfriend is obviously being insensitive, but she may just be scared.

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shagirl122441 3

oh wow! i feel bad for you you shouldnt have to go threw that! wha a freakinh bitch that hoe is! your better off without her i feel bad for you tho! fyl! indeed!

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Miyuri687 0

that's just really effed hope you find someone else you deserve better karma will get her.

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lickmyjock 0

what's the best part of showering with a 12 year old? slick her hair back and she looks 8.

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FFML_314 11

Honestly, that was disgusting and lacked any type of humor.

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saint_jimmy 0

If you really believe that, then you can go get castrated now. If you meant it to be hilariously funny, then you can go back to /b/, or wherever they appreciate that disgustingly immature sense of 'humour'.

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dridri97 0

aww OP I feel soo badd

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jooliaboolia 6

that's actually believable. children take after their parents. my boyfriend thinks it's ok to starve a kid because that's how he grew up, even though he says he would never hurt them

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kaijapapaya 0

who says his abuser was a parent? and sure, a kid is very likely to behave similarly to their parents, but they can choose not to. you ALWAYS get to choose how you act and what you do. just because OP was abused doesn't mean he will automatically inflict the same pain onto other people.

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Kawaiichan42 3

134, knowing that he's more likely to do that, would you want to risk your kids' safety? I don't even have kids, and I know I wouldn't want to take that chance.

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parte_perdiz 0

he is no more likely to abuse her children then some old guy down the street. look at some of the previous posts. I think it was 199 that said it best.

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Kawaiichan42 3

I agree with you 228, I was simply saying that for some reason, OP's ex sees it that way. If I saw things that way, I wouldn't want to risk that either. All I was doing was trying to explain the gf's point of view, which is what I've been working on in my psychology class. >>

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zdani 10

OP, you will find someone someday who loves you and believes in you and accepts that you were abused in your past. It will be hard now, but there are people out there who will understand how hard it has been. Stay strong.

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saint_jimmy 0

It sometimes takes a parent's ****** up childhood to give a kid a really good one. She probably just believes the 'do unto others what has been done to you' a little too much. It's her loss, mate, not really yours. Find yourself somebody who will respect you after you tell them your secret and trust you to still be a good person because of it.

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princessslala 0

she shouldn't be scared if you guys have been together that long. where's the trust?

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sourgirl101 28

Maybe she has children already from a previous relationship and fears the unknown. I'm sorry if you find it unfair but I respect her for putting her kids first. The fact that you only told three people may mean that you haven't dealt with your trauma head on and gotten help. I'm no expert so I really can't give advice. I am truly sorry for your past.

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RedPillSucks 31

Not disagreeing with most of what you said, but I don't think this is the sort of thing that people would go around telling everyone. It's a very sensitive topic and he told someone with whom he though he had a trusting relationship.

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becccers 14

Do you realise how narrow inner minded you sound? Its actually rare for a child or an adolescent to grow up and rape someone else. I've been sexually abused, does that mean I shouldn't date someone who has kids because I might hurt another child? Thats basically saying someone shouldn't date someone because their last relationship ended up in someone getting hurt/killed and they might snap and kill their new significant other just because of the selfish acts someone else committed

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