By BeforeItWasCool - 30/09/2012 09:30 - United Kingdom
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Wow this seems to have been misinterpreted! It was unplanned, I was entirely surprised by it. We hadn't planned on kids- if it had been positive it would have been an accident. I was just quite happy to have such a nice surprise even if it did turn out to be negative. I was quite disappointed it was negative, not because I've been secretly trying to get pregnant, but because I was pleasantly surprised. It just seems my fiancé was a little too enthusiastic about the negative result.
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He just says he wants kids to get into your pants! That's how shit works.
Nothing classier than a pregnant bride... Maybe u should see if he'll ever go thru with the marriage before getting knocked up with a child only one of you wants...
Did you all consider that maybe this guy is an asshole an OP has a right to be disappointed? Maybe he did agree only to have lots of unprotected sex and celebrated cuz it would mean he gets another night of sex
CaroAurelia
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Y'all probably should have had a conversation, because if you want a kid and he doesn't and you get pregnant, that's going to suck for you AND the baby.
BloodyGlass
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Clearly, if you want a child and he doesn't, you need to find another person or stop trying to trap him in a relationship with a baby. :)
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If he's your fiancé for four years, that means he's still not ready to commit. A baby would probably force him to marry you, something he's been avoiding for years.
^Nailed it. From the wording of the FML, it seems like OP wants to get pregnant without her fiancee's consent. And if that's true, what the hell is wrong with you OP?! Just because you have a "strong relationship" doesn't mean he wants kids. Furthermore, if he doesn't want kids and you do, do NOT get married to him. Those irreconcilable differences.