By BeforeItWasCool - 30/09/2012 09:30 - United Kingdom
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Wow this seems to have been misinterpreted! It was unplanned, I was entirely surprised by it. We hadn't planned on kids- if it had been positive it would have been an accident. I was just quite happy to have such a nice surprise even if it did turn out to be negative. I was quite disappointed it was negative, not because I've been secretly trying to get pregnant, but because I was pleasantly surprised. It just seems my fiancé was a little too enthusiastic about the negative result.
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AzKoldAzICE
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YDI if you didn't tell him you wanted a baby. You can't spring stuff like that on people.
Gemini_Jordan
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First of all you should be married. Second of all you "fiance" should share the same views on starting a family.
Old habits die hard...
row74
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Why all the YDIs
Sadly all the YDI's are because people kept thinking that OP was purposely trying to get pregnant behind the bf's back.
He's obviously not ready for kids. And he may not ever be ready. I think it's time for you two to re-evaulate what you both want out of life, and if it doesn't match on bigs things like having children, then you probably won't have a successful marriage.
Relationships not too strong now...is it?
r u serious? your not even married yet, y wld u wanna have kids soo soon? and i dated a guy and it was fine the first 5 years till i found out he had 6 other gfs but to him i was his #1.., dnt ever b too quick
Ydi for trying to make a bastard
What an asshole.
well geeze, sorry to say but that's an asshole!!! do you still wanna get married and have kids with him?
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If he's your fiancé for four years, that means he's still not ready to commit. A baby would probably force him to marry you, something he's been avoiding for years.
^Nailed it. From the wording of the FML, it seems like OP wants to get pregnant without her fiancee's consent. And if that's true, what the hell is wrong with you OP?! Just because you have a "strong relationship" doesn't mean he wants kids. Furthermore, if he doesn't want kids and you do, do NOT get married to him. Those irreconcilable differences.