Transvestites are also usually straight. Like Eddie Izzard said "I'm a male lesbian" Transgendered people are usually attracted to their same sex, and think themselves the opposite sex. Like a male, who views himself as a woman, who likes men. There's a difference, should be noted when talking about this. Also, sometimes women go to gay bars for fun, or because they're hanging out with gay men who don't like straight bars, or they may just not feel like getting hit on, or it could be the obvious reason of they are a lesbian. Either way, once she said "I'm a woman" the OP should've stopped asking questions. Although since he was at a gay BAR he was probably at least a little of both. Therefore I clicked both.

You deserved to get told off for asking a ridiculously personal question to a complete stranger. But if what offended her was being mistaken for trans at all, then she also deserved it.

i was at a gay bar and a straight guy came up to dance w/me from behind-he leaned forward and looked over my shoulder and i said -what are you doing? and he said-checking for a penis! WTF!

well, why the hell was a straight woman in a GAY bar? This is not a big deal, based on the fact that she subjected herself to that, if you put yourself in that situation then you have to expect people to ask things like that. That woman is just a dumb bitch.

HAHA, she deserved it. Gay bars are fun anyways she shouldn't get offended at something like that!

#22-- what the hell are you talking about? My index finger is shorter than my ring finger, and I'm a woman.

# 53... i believe it goes something like this..... let he who is without sin cast the first stone...

Woman in a gay bar. Confusion is at least somewhat expected to occur.

She shouldn't have been so mad, I mean she WAS in a gay bar......confusion to be expected

You deserved it for asking questions that were clearly none of your business. People like you need to be punched in the face. Repeatedly.