Well go in the bed with them! I'm sure your ex will like to have a threesome, or better yet, a three-hundred some >: D

For being someone in the military, your confidence is surely lacking. If you PAY/PAID for the apartment...tell the dude to gtfo. If she paid half, tell them to GTFO off your bed.

I read " wanted to try and get her back." Does that mean that you broke up with her trying to do something noble so she wouldn't end up in heartache in case something tragic happened? If that's the case then YDI, most women understand before hand if they are dating someone in the military that this is a possible situation. They wouldn't be with you if they didn't understand this. Maybe it's truly your fault for thinking your ex would romantically run back to you like in the movies. This isn't Pearl Harbor, get a real life. And I am not trying to offend anyone in the military. I have family members and numerous amounts of friends in the military, so I understand that it could be her fault, but it could be yours. And did you ever think to call her that you were coming home to the apartment you paid for? Communication is key so you don't end up in this situation.

Well as woman Id say Id rather be alone than too deal with the BS And yeah thats pretty cold hearted of her as your providing for her just so she can do that. Get rid of her!!!

i don't get it.

Okay. You're a dumbass. I'm going to put that out there. Why didn't you just stay at a hotel or something? Or with friends? I'm sure you have friends that live on base, and are married, so you can stay at their houses. Why would you ever put yourself through that kind of hell? :/ But be thankful that she's out of your life.

Check it Bro, you should have started kicking some ass right there, or kicked their asses out! Afterall it's your place, you paid for it! I have the utmost respect for you guys, and it breaks my heart to hear of this crap happening all the time. I gotta say though-You wouldnt let a group of hajis do anything to you or your brothers, so why would you let some girl (Who proved she aint worth a damn) run all over you like this? Put your foot down Bro.

it's really not that hard to understand people. he came back from iraq, he knew him and his girlfriend were already broken up but they probably lived together beforehand so he planned on staying in THEIR house while he looked for a new one. he spent his first day back looking for places to live, and THAT NIGHT, as he tried to sleep, he heard them...not that hard :/

man, let it go. u don't own her, the apt or the bed anymore. she moved on, and u shouldn't have even thought to stay there, even temporarily. a motel would have been a better option. i am not a prude, but the next time u wanna set up house with a chic, marry her. at least you could divide the stuff up after the divorce.

Baby, don't stress her. She wouldn't make a good military wife anyway. Find you somebody who can keep their legs closed and values you.