Alright. My response was speaking hypothetically of OP being asexual, as it appeared that that is what you thought. My point was that OP is obviously not asexual, and luckily at least that was conveyed. My 106 response is ignorant, yes, because the idea that OP is asexual is ignorant. I apologize, truly, for my misinterpretation of your thoughts. I do want to be clear that I do not think there is anything wrong with people who lack sexual attraction. I wish I could put that in all caps, but I won't bother you all. I honestly *facepalm* just thinking of the idea that someone would think there is... x_x I do not, however, think that the idea of *OP* going to get professional help because her libido is on the low side and she appears to prefer to have sexual desires more often is an asshole-calling-worthy idea.

I applaud your husband

Imagine feeling that way 90% of the time you are in the mood.

You definitely deserve it. You shouldn't just put out when you want it. Think about his needs once in a while.

Serves you right that's just not cool how can you women expect your man to be only yours when you refuse to put out it's no secret sex has always been Important

YDI, what goes around comes around.

Oh, my bad. I forgot it's totally unheard of to expect sex from your husband. And yes, in the case of marraige or almost any serious relationship, sex is important. The intimacy you achieve from it is important and the connection you get with your partner (especially when it's your husband) is important. Yes she's been rejecting him, yes she should put forth more of an effort, and no she shouldnt expect much sympathy here but in reality there's probaynot a single woman here that hasn't plain old not been in the mood at one point or another. *end of rant*

marriage is a compromise, that's true. however, if you're not in the mood, you're not in the mood. sex is supposed to be about both partners, and if one of them doesn't really want to participate, then what's the point? also, if OP has been suffering from a low libido, that can hardly be the result of a bad attitude, which is what her husband is clearly suffering from. it's pretty rough not being able to have sex with someone you love, i realize, but acting like a child about it is still a really lousy way to behave.

By the sound of it, fml would be swarming with messages if he went and wrote one everytime you reject him

Bitch got OWNED !