That doesn't make it right. Wow!

He could shred it, and if she assumes it is a open relationship that would be just feeding the fire, and make it worse. Better to just confront him about it first thing instead of using petty revenge tactics.

How is it revenge, assuming she deems it an open relationship then it's not revenge it's the same thing it is already, she just knows and is enjoying the perks. If he bitches about it she can show him the page, it doesn't have to be admissible in court, just proof that it exists. And how is he going to shred it before she needs it if he doesn't know about it? I said it'd be harder, not impossible, but where does it say that the guy is psychic?

He could shred it when she shows it to him. It would be revenge because you know she would only be doing it to get back at him, you don't just go from thinking you're in a committed relationship to whoring around without it being so, it would just be better for her to ask him about it than assume, because she will come out looking like an ass to go along with him. I'm sure through all this she's heartbroken, so why further complicate things with dumb shit like that?

I agree with GoW, fighting fire with fire burns everyone. Once you do something bad to someone that will play on your mind as well, making you feel worse. Why stoop to their level? And Danielle could be a code name for someone, or some super secret embarrassing activity that OP's boyfriend may take part in, like Teddy bear picnics!

Falling back on **** games is not a revenge tactic is a feeble excuse to be a tart. Stop the silly games and dump the fool.

Couldn't agree with you more 95. (:

Agreed!

But I hate it when people inbox stuff and you never know the full story.

hey what city r u in um live in texas too we should hang out l

It's called the "reply" button. ******* USE IT!!

So you'd rather people talk crap and admit to cheating on you behind your back and never know about it? What're you gonna do when people bring drama face to face? Deactivate your boyfriend? God, your argument is so ******* dumb.

Uhm you do realize I was just saying I deleted my Facebook because of drama, nobody was cheating on anybody. And I was telling the girl she should be glad she found out instead of it staying behind her back. And it wasn't an argument. You shouldn't judge what somebody say if you didn't get it.

And I did have drama brought to my face, do to the fact you don't know what drama I'm talking about again you shouldn't judge what I say without knowing exactly what, and I delt with it, like I said no cheating. Dumb people saying things that never happend to get me to look bad.

Uhm no Facebook is good about that, I'm saying it's the random shit talkers that do go behind your back make it drama filled. You can leave me alone now, you might not understand what I'm saying but I know others do.

Goodbye. My comment saying Facebook is drama filled was not ment to be an argument and it also didn't even need to be discussed since I know everybody has drama or has had drama over Facebook, knowing the back stabbers is a very good thing. And the cheaters, that's one good thing about Facebook you learn what's being hidden faster. Why I'm being hassled for saying that is beyond me. An I'm not blaming Facebook either.

KaySL - why are you worried about it? Everytime you get your period you bring all that negative energy to these boards. STFU sometimes. (That goes for your groupies, too.)

I like you(:

effedml, you should Shut the **** up too.

Groupie #1 to the rescue...

Sorry, KaySL. You don't debate anything. You insult people with long boring speeches & name-calling. Seeing how it's not my posts you comment on, why would I be butt-hurt? I'm just annoyed by obnoxious bullies & their groupie followers. You can't insult me into running away b/c I'm not an insecure person.

She's not even worth the time to argue with. That's why I "walked Away" from her comments to what I was saying.

More like person who can verbally demoralize you in any way possible, and sticks up for people from Douchebags like you!

Your just weird.

Marissa, it's not just you...LoserSL does this all the time. In fact, there probably aren't any groupies. She's most likely thumbing up her own comments based on what's happened here so quickly. That's what pathetic bullies do.

Oh god, I know I was in high school at one time as were you. I'm sure we both know just how pathetic bullies are just from being around them, people just need to grow up bad it looks like.

And Groupie #1 makes a comeback! Took time out of her thumb-up/thumb-down marathon to worship her master. (Or is Groupie #1 really KaySL's other profile?)

My comments are to effedml not you besides this one. So yes from you I am, twit.

Kaysl wtf, if you don't like what she's saying drop it and gtfo. I'm sure she's soooo upset about some keyboard warrior disagreeing. FYL Kaysl!

Umm.... what the ***** this got to do with my comment? PMS somewhere else ladies.

effedml, What? You're saying me and Kay are the same person? *COUGH *COUGH *MORON *COUGH *COUGH

Oops, I meant that to efedml ladylala. Still waiting for marissamay to answer my question. :/

Sorry again, Kay. Marissa & I don't even have the same writing style & I doubt you'll find our comments on all the same threads (seeing how I comment sporadically), so it's pretty obvious that we're not the same person. I'm glad you reminded me about the Eminem post b/c I'd forgotten about your distasteful insults to a child. However, that does show that I'm rather consistent when responding to a bully making unnecessarily negative comments. Ta-ta, dearie!

I answerd, I said I did what I needed to do to fix it and no I did not deactivate my boyfriend. Like I said the drama wasn't even about him it was old people I ust to hangout with getting mad I wasn't buying them alcohol or hanging out anymore. Like I said before Facebook brings drama, glad the girl found out faster like she would have on Facebook. Anything not answerd shrike?

Sorry, Strike. We jacked this thread & it's not going back. My apologies.

Nah I asked you why you think facebook brings that. It doesn't. I have a facebook and I get zero drama. Okay sometimes I get a little, but its rare and I delete the stupid people. So why do you tell people to run away from their problems??

Oh. Okay Facebook can and can't depends on the people you happen to know, i sadly happend to know the shit talkers of my town and I didn't run away I put a stop to it on Facebook and then a stop to it in person, I don't run away that's actually a problem do to the fact I don't stop tell the situation is resolved, not always the greatest thing. I have other reasons for also deleting my Facebook not just because of drama. And it was rare for me too a little here and there

Random question: Why would I take the extra time to PM a bully? Who does that besides a chump? Shouldn't they be publicly called on it?

Oh okay, I gotcha. Hey effedml, I've got a question for you too- why're you still posting shit on my and marisa's thread? I'm trying to talk to her and you're just being a dumbass internet tough guy and interrupting. go pick fights on another thread. Jesus...

Shrike sorry if I sounded defensive, I couldn't tell if you were talking or being a shit talker on here, there hard to tell apart sometimes.

Nah there's lots of idiots on here. People like effemel like to flip shit to look all cool is all, but we got to the bottom of the question, so yah. :)

Lol well you were plan and simple and not as insulting as the kaysl girl, she needs to learn to calm down a little to. But yes we did (:

Strike...Cause I wanted to keep going on this one. I thought I made that clear a couple comments ago. I was actually done until I read your helpful suggestion. I'm not letting anything slide tonight. I've chosen to be just as bad as the name-calling bullies this evening.

Stop trolling, effemel. Conversation's over, find another place to fight. :)

Change that last answer...yes, I will let Strike's blabber pass by b/c my fight was not w/him. I don't want to start in on random bystanders. I don't like KaySL & wasn't in the mood for her shit tonight.

Weirdest, longest, most pointless thread I've read so far... HI KaySL, The_A_teen, Ladylalala(or how ever many las there are in there) and other people. :D

Even tho for some odd reason it was mostly against me, I found it humorous as they are all and always will be strangers lol(:

And kaysl believe me not to much to handle, out of all you were saying I just couldn't catch whatyou were asking along with what I could I thought I did answer then, I was mistaken. Insults don't make anything better or worth anybody's time, try to remember that.

No KaySL I like you just the way you are don't change *sniffle* just ignore the dumbassians they go back to their own dimension eventually. (for further explanation on dumbassians check out my profile)

Tomorrow, I'm going to be xtra nice to two strangers to make up for tonight. :) Everybody be more kind.

wtf did i just read?!

I'm going to be extra hateful to everyone. Just kidding, I just don't like how people feel the need to belittle others instead of asking a simple question.. I agree, group hug!

She has my name "marissa" and creepy enough the may matches my middle name :/

Marissa- I'm sorry you were forced to deal with a large group of immature people who believe that the best way to win an argument, is to name-call. I would prepare a long speech pointing out every instance of their immaturity, but that could probably take a while. So I'll just say this: the entire argument was pathetic on their part. So you don't like facebook, big ******* deal. They need to grow-up and learn to pick their battles. Because if this is how they act off of their computer screens and keyboards, they're going to go nowhere fast in life.

Agreed.