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An FML for him being so stingy; a YDI on you for assuming yourself into being unprepared to pay your way. Ironic that there's not likely to be a second date, because you guys deserve each other.
k that guy was a jackass for sure but you shouldn't have been expecting him to pay for your meal. fyl for the crappy date but ydi for not being prepared to fend for yourself. btw, if you had a debit card, this fml is bs because you could have paid with that.
The guy has no obligation to pay for you on the first date (besides, $6 for a salad? Where the **** were you eating?). No guy wants a girl who is selfish enough to think that she should not have to pay for anything when in a relationship... YDI, show some courtesy next time, men are not your slaves/bitches/money fountains/whatever **** else you women think we are.
What's with the "you women"? Just because you've made a valid point about men not having to pay for everything does not mean you can be sexist.
Expecting your date to pay shows something about your character is lacking. I would never go out without cash at hand and always offer to pay, although in those instances, I'm usually rejected haha...
Dude fails at macking. What you do is pay for the guy's/chick's food and tell them afterwards that you expect something in return. While cocking a gun.
You clearly just went out with him for a free meal. YDI it for wasting his time, and epic win for him calling you on it.
whoever asks the other person on the date should pay. if you are asking the other person out to eat, you can't assume they'll be able to pay for it.
YDI for bringing NO money when you went to a restaurant. It's fine to expect a guy to pay, but to bring no money so he's pretty much forced to pay? That's just bitchy. Good for this guy. You sound like a ***** who just dates people to get things from them if you brought no money and expected him to pay for everything.
The idea of guys paying for dates is outdated and ridiculous. If you're not willing to be purchased, then pay for your own dates.
And beyond that, you should *always* be prepared with some cash when you go on a first date. What if he had stood you up or walked out on you? What if he had been a total creep and you need to take a taxi home?
fyl and ydi because he SHOULD pay for it, but just in case you ever run into these types of people, always have money avaliable.
Why should he have to pay for it? Women bitch about equality but then expect men to pay for dates. My last girlfriend, expected me to pay for everything. My current girlfriend alternates with me on who pays or we split the bill if its something expensive (and I plan on keeping her around a heck of a lot longer).
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Never expect anything on a first date.....duh
Why do you expect the guy to pay on the first date? You obviously had no intend of paying, so you left your money home in case he did not pay for you. But boohoo he didn't anyway. Also, you sound like a girl that only orders a salad and then eats half the food of other peoples plates.