By Medication - 12/10/2013 15:31 - United States

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Today, I went home after work with my best friend who I am also secretly in love with. We had a few drinks, were getting touchy, and one thing led to another. Before leaving, I got the courage to ask her out on a real date. Her only reply was, "I don't want to lose such a good friend." FML
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Medication tells us more.

I didn't have an account when I posted this, but I'm the OP, and honestly, during our drunken state, I mustered up enough sobriety to prevent things from going too far. I as well, didn't want to ruin things between us by having sex because I respected her too much, and wanted more than that. Was it the right thing to do, or was I just being a dumbass? One commenter was correct in stating that she was confused as to what she really wanted. Either way, we've talked it out, and moved over that. It's better anyways maybe, considering we both work together and I have to go on months long deployments with this girl, haha. :]

Comments

howlingwolf89 16

Haha! Same thing happened to me not too long ago!!

I said that to my best friend, who I now want to marry. We've been happy for almost 2 years now. Hang in there! :)

There is always hope. My best guy friend told me that he loved me for over a year before I finally gave him a chance. We have now been together for a year and five months and have a daughter together. I've fallen in love with him

Did you have the daughter before or after you fell in love?

After.. I wouldn't have had a baby with him otherwise

So just to clarify. You had a baby. Then you fell in love with him. You Did It Wrong. (did I read that wrong?) But I agree with the setiment (sp). Girls get FriendZoned too (I dont think people get that). I am a tomboy so the guys I liked saw me as a guy. My husband FZd me. My bf before him FZd me for 3 years. The guy before that: 5 years. They are still the three most important men in my life.

199: Yes, you read it wrong. The question was did you have the daughter before or after falling in love. The answer was after. Therefore, the situation was she fell in love, then had the daughter.

Dodge4x4Ram 46

don't ask,, let the moment of heat do all the talking buddy,,

dakotahulsey 15

Sounds like an easy friends with benefits card. Always rally the situation!

ninety 25

There's nothing easy about friends with benefits if you actually want a relationship with the person.

You just Got FRIENDZONED..... Welcome to the club, we were expecting you...

Mysterious_one 26

been there.. get your together dude..

Well.. Maybe she needs a little reminder that it's a little too late for her to think of that. But seriously just give up on her and find someone who actually deserves you, she doesn't sound like she could be good for you.

Maybe she is telling the truth?! She likes him a lot but would be scared to risk losing him completely if they tried a relationship and it didn't work out?!

She should have thought of that before she actually slept with him imo

vuduguru 5

Hey at least you got laid out of the deal, could've asked beforehand and not gotten laid. look at the benefits

150493x 29