By Anonymous - 07/05/2016 05:49 - Australia - Melbourne

Today, I went on a second date with a guy who seemed perfect in every way possible. That is until he started mentioned how children are a deal-breaker for him. I had to break it to him that I have a 14 month old daughter. He actually had the balls to ask if I'd ever consider foster care. Seriously, dude? FML
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Same thing different taste

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Everything was fine until he asked about foster care. Some people just don't like/ want children.

I'm sorry that "man" turned out to be a boy op, you deserve a lot better.

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You should have your baby's best interest in mind when looking for a new relationship. Idk why you didn't inform him that you had a little one on the first date... But it would have been one of the first things I would have told him if I were in your shoes. I don't have any children yet, so I wouldn't know how hard it is to find a good guy who would love them like their own and me at the same time, but I can imagine that it would be significantly more difficult. Stay strong momma :) <3 happy belated Mother's Day :) Do yourself a favor; don't talk to him ever again, he doesn't deserve ya'll.

Honestly kids would be a deal breaker for me too but asking you to put your kid in foster care is just a dick move

Congratulations, you just dodged a bullet.

I too have a 14 month old daughter. what a dick. he literally should have told you that before meeting you and wasting your time.

It seems odd to me that you never mentioned your kid until well into the 2nd date. ydi