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I'm in Australia. If guy asks girl on date here he pays for everything
Speak for yourself. That's hardly been my experience here. In fact, I've found many girls expect and want to pay their share, which to me is a sign of independence and a desire for equality - much more attractive traits than codependency and entitlement. You get all sorts everywhere, but to draw a blanket statement over the whole country isn't going to help your case.
I'm from Australia , too (though I don't see how it's relevant to the topic). Sure, most guys pay when they're on a date, to be polite. However, they don't have to. They do it to be nice, not because it's their job. It's rude to just assume the guy will pay. And, OP, even assuming he was going to pay, you didn't bring any back-up money? You never know when you're going to need it.
I'm from Australia, I pay for myself. Unless the guy is being very polite + insists.
It should be a rule that the men pay It's the gentleman thing to do. And it's how and what i was raised to believe.
No.... just no... Let's not assign paying responsibility beyond all other factors based on gender.
damn lesbians going on dates would be in quite a difficult situation. stupid idea is stupid.
I love how women want a role in society that makes them respected as equals, and then they follow all these stereotypes about dating. Don't mistake me, I respect women as my equals, but this is just flat out hypocritical.
Not all women are like that, and the ones that are contribute to giving feminism a bad name. People should split the bill on dates as it shows equality and it shows you are invested in this date as much as your partner. If one wants to pay for the whole thing then that's fine too, but do it because you want to, as a kind gesture not because of some stupid old rule, that stems from when women weren't supposed to work. This is the 21st century people. Times are hard and to expect someone to pay for you is down right disrespectful and distasteful.
GTFO with this BS #67
I think going out anywhere without money is a bad idea. What if you'd need to get a taxi home? Bus fare? Gas? Impulsively feel like a Starbucks Coffee? Plus it's pretty presumptuous that you would go to a movie expecting someone to pay for everything for you. Even if it is a date, you still need to be responsible and prepared to take care of yourself.
He asked her out, he pays!! What's with everyone saying OP deserves it!!
Make that your last date. Unless he states it's dutch upfront then it's assumed for the most part. The one who asks should pay. If a girl asks out a guy then she should ante up unless he states otherwise. If you ask someone out on a date and expect them to pay then that's not a date that's hanging out. Lack of communication contributed to this confusion.
It's polite for someone who asked you out to pay or to agree beforehand who is paying for what. But it was also not a good idea to leave without money, and it's not safe either. You could have been put in a dangerous situation.
What is it with girls expecting guys to pay? Women want equal pay in the workplace but don't want to pay for their own meals.
Thank you, lyfe Jennings said it best don't be a nickle looking for a dime. It goes both ways. A male should not want a top of the line female when he ain't got his stuff together nor should a female want a male to have everything when she ain't got her self together.
On the plus side, you don't have to have sex with the guy. If I pay for a movie, there has to be at least a *******. If you want popcorn, movie popcorn, you're in for an evening of debauchery!
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Never, ever, assume
Contrary to popular belief it's ignorant to be so confident in this "rule" that you don't bring your own money, I believe it was totally deserved in this case. This doesn't mean I don't believe the guy should pay though so don't get confused.