of course you go somwhere when you die. either heaven or hell.

who the **** thumbs-down'd you? you're right, dude. there are some people of various ages who simply don't deserve to have offspring. if you can't maintain yourself, then you sure as hell can't maintain a kid. and that, my friends, is a FACT. |the kid|

No, he's not right. I agree that people only should have children when they are capable to take good care after them, but I disagree that you should always think of conception whilst having sex. I don't want children. Ever. So what, no sex for me? And what with poor people? Or people with a mental disease? Never have sex? Wow, what a great enjoyable life is waiting for us. Contraception exists for a reason: to avoid conception. Having sex whilst using contraception = no need of thinking of conception.

If you use contraception then you HAVE thought about the possibility of conception and done something to prevent it. I think that was #104's point.

I meant to add that I thought his point was that for many people, there is always the possibility that sex will lead to pregnancy and if you are not aware of that, you should not have sex. For the most part, I agree. Many ill-informed people think a condom or some other method of birth control will always prevent pregnancy. 99.9% still excludes 0.01%. That doesn't sound like a big deal unless you're in that 0.01%.

DJ- No, it would personally suck for you to think of popping out a kid WHILE getting some. Never said "think of your new beautiful baby boy while your boo is ramming you into the headboard." Never said that. I said that if you are even considering having sex, you cannot be ignorant of the fact that children can be a result, and that should be a good reason children like us should NOT have sex. But I'm just old-school, I guess. I agree that my opening statement is too broad, but It was just to put emphasis on the fact that short of infertility any young woman is capable of getting pregnant via sex. Contraception isn't water-proof, so even if you take it THERE IS THAT POSSIBILITY. That is what I meant. I don't want children either. I'm seventeen years old, (and female, btw, IDK how ya'll got the idea I was male... ._.;;) and know about the pros and cons of contraception, but I'm STILL not going to have sex until I get myself straight because I don't want to be the 0.01% (thanks, Foe) that somehow still ends up pregnant. That's my opinion and a valid point to still consider. "Having sex whilst using contraception = no need of thinking of conception"? Now you have to admit that that is a LOT of trust to a faulty (albeit minimally faulty) product. If you end up pregnant while using the condom/pill what would you do? Sue the pharmacy/condom factory for your pregnancy? I think not. Contraception does a good job of keeping you bun- and worry-free but its existence, again I say, doesn't eliminate the possibility. No offense to the mentally challenged, but I doubt that the seriously mentally afflicted think about children; however, there are some mentally challenged parents that are fully capable of raising children. My friend's mom and sister's husband's mother are perfect examples.

LOL @ pendatik